A Life of Significance

Today’s a new day!

There is something about a long and difficult health journey that changes the way you see everything.

It has a way of stripping away every illusion of control.

We spend so much of our lives believing we are in charge of tomorrow. We make plans, build careers, chase achievements, accumulate possessions, and convince ourselves that if we just work a little harder or prepare a little better, we can control what comes next.

Then life happens.

A diagnosis.
A phone call.
A hospital room.
A test result.
A moment that changes everything.

My health journey has taught me that life is far more fragile than I ever imagined. It has also shown me how fragile relationships can be. Some people will walk beside you through the darkest valleys, while others quietly disappear when the road becomes difficult. Although that can be painful, it also reveals something beautiful—it helps you recognize those who genuinely love you, not for what you can do, but simply because you are you.

This journey has also taught me that everything we often believe defines us can disappear in an instant.

Our careers.
Our physical strength.
Our independence.
Our financial security.
Our titles.
Our reputation.
Even our carefully crafted plans for the future.

None of those things are guaranteed.

When those layers begin to fall away, one question remains:

Who are we when everything else is gone?

For me, that question continually brings me back to Jesus.

My identity cannot rest in what I accomplish, because accomplishments fade.

It cannot rest in my health, because health can change overnight.

It cannot rest in what others think of me, because opinions come and go.

My identity must rest in the One who never changes.

The older I get, and the longer this journey continues, the more convinced I become that so much of what we spend our lives worrying about simply doesn’t matter in the end.

We argue over temporary things.

We compete for positions that won’t last.

We chase recognition that will eventually be forgotten.

We exhaust ourselves trying to impress people whose approval can never truly satisfy our hearts.

Meanwhile, opportunities to love, encourage, forgive, and serve quietly pass us by.

What if we invested as much energy into loving people as we do protecting our image?

What if we pursued kindness with the same passion we pursue success?

What if we measured our lives less by what we accumulated and more by whose lives were changed because we were here?

I don’t want my life to be remembered for what I owned.

I want it to be remembered for how I loved.

I don’t want to simply leave behind possessions.

I want to leave behind hope.

I want people to know that even in weakness, Jesus remained faithful.

Even through suffering, His grace was sufficient.

Even when life felt uncertain, His promises never failed.

If my health journey has taught me anything, it is this:

Life is a gift.

Time is precious.

People matter.

Jesus is enough.

So today, I want to encourage you.

Don’t spend your life chasing things that will never satisfy your soul.

Don’t allow temporary achievements to become eternal priorities.

Choose a life of significance.

Love deeply.

Forgive quickly.

Serve generously.

Encourage freely.

Walk humbly with God.

Because when this life is over, it won’t matter how impressive our résumé was or how much applause we received.

What will matter is whether we loved God with all our heart and loved our neighbor as ourselves.

Those are the things that last.

Those are the things that echo into eternity. ~OC

New Isles: A New Beginning/Chapter Twenty- The Hidden Story

The next morning, Hope Isles woke slowly.

The harbor stirred to life.

Fishing boats slipped into the water.

The aroma of fresh coffee drifted from Sit Awhile.

Church bells rang in the distance.

And for the first time in decades, Daniel Carter woke up on the island he once swore he’d never see again.

James found him sitting on the porch of Hope House before sunrise.

Coffee cup in hand.

Bible open.

Reading.

The sight made James smile.

“Couldn’t sleep?”

Daniel looked up.

“A little.”

James sat beside him.

“Bad memories?”

Daniel shook his head.

“Good ones.”

That answer surprised them both.

For years, Hope Isles had only represented loss.

Now something else was beginning to emerge.

Gratitude.

Healing had a way of changing the lens through which people viewed the past.

A few hours later, Walter arrived carrying a weathered leather satchel.

June noticed immediately.

“Oh no.”

Walter raised an eyebrow.

“Oh no what?”

June pointed at the satchel.

“That bag contains either wisdom or trouble.”

Walter laughed.

“Maybe both.”

Ethan leaned over.

“Definitely both.”

The group gathered around one of the large tables inside Hope House.

Walter carefully placed the satchel in front of him.

Then he removed several old journals.

Photographs.

Documents.

Letters.

Items yellowed by time.

Daniel stared.

“What is all this?”

Walter smiled.

“The rest of the story.”

Silence settled across the room.

Walter opened one of the journals.

“This belonged to Reverend Samuel Hayes.”

James recognized the name.

The founder of Hope House.

The man whose photograph still hung in the main hallway.

Walter nodded toward the journal.

“He wrote everything down.”

Sarah leaned forward.

“Everything?”

“Almost.”

Walter carefully opened to a bookmarked page.

The room grew quiet.

He began reading.

“Today Thomas Carter approached me with an idea.”

“He believes Hope Isles needs a place where broken people can start over.”

“A place where no one walks alone.”

“A place built on faith, community, and second chances.”

James froze.

Daniel did too.

Walter continued.

“Thomas says every person deserves someone who believes redemption is possible.”

“I believe he is right.”

Walter closed the journal.

The room sat in stunned silence.

Finally Ethan spoke.

“Wait.”

Everyone looked at him.

“You’re saying Thomas Carter helped create Hope House?”

Walter smiled.

“He did more than help.”

Daniel’s eyes widened.

“What do you mean?”

Walter slid an old photograph across the table.

In it stood Reverend Hayes.

Beside him stood Thomas Carter.

Both smiling.

Both holding blueprints.

The words written on the back were simple:

The beginning of Hope House.

James stared at the image.

His grandfather.

The man he’d never known.

The man who had spent his life helping build a place dedicated to second chances.

The very place that had eventually saved James.

The room became completely still.

June wiped away tears.

Sarah looked speechless.

Even Ethan had no sarcastic comment ready.

Which might have been the most shocking thing of all.

Walter turned another page.

“There is more.”

James wasn’t sure his heart could handle more.

Yet he nodded.

Walter read again.

“Thomas believes God can redeem any story.”

“He often says that someday someone from his own family may need this place.”

“I laughed when he said it.”

“He did not.”

The words hit like thunder.

James sat frozen.

Daniel looked equally stunned.

Walter slowly lowered the journal.

The silence lingered.

Then Daniel whispered:

“He said that?”

Walter nodded.

“He said it often.”

James felt emotion rising unexpectedly.

His grandfather had spoken those words 

decades before James was born.

Long before the brokenness.

Long before the wandering.

Long before Hope House became his refuge.

Yet somehow…

Thomas Carter had believed.

Not in details.

Not in predictions.

But in the power of God to redeem future generations.

Sarah reached across the table and squeezed James’s hand.

Neither said a word.

None were needed.

Walter opened one final envelope.

“This was found among Reverend Hayes’s papers after he died.”

He handed it directly to James.

The handwriting was unmistakable.

Thomas Carter.

James carefully unfolded the paper.

The message was short.

Only a paragraph.

Yet every word mattered.

If my family ever returns to Hope Isles, remind them of this:

God wastes nothing.

Not storms.

Not grief.

Not failures.

Not lost years.

Everything surrendered to Him can become part of a greater story.

Tell them not to run.

Tell them to stay long enough to see what grace can build.

James lowered the letter.

His eyes filled with tears.

Across the table, Daniel quietly wept.

Not from sorrow.

Not this time.

From understanding.

Years spent running.

Years spent blaming.

Years spent believing the story ended at loss.

And all along, God had been writing something larger.

Something spanning generations.

Walter smiled gently.

“Your grandfather never got to see Hope House finished.”

He looked around the room.

At the people.

At the friendships.

At the lives changed.

At James.

“But I think he would have liked the result.”

Laughter mixed with tears.

The kind of laughter born from gratitude.

The kind that only appears after healing has done its work.

Later that evening, James stood alone outside Hope House.

The sun was setting.

The island glowed in shades of gold.

Behind him stood the building his grandfather helped imagine.

A place that had become home.

A place that had changed everything.

Footsteps approached.

Daniel joined him.

For a while neither spoke.

Finally Daniel broke the silence.

“You know what’s amazing?”

“What?”

Daniel smiled.

“I spent forty years trying to stay away from this place.”

James nodded.

“And?”

His father looked toward Hope House.

Toward the harbor.

Toward the church.

Toward the lighthouse.

Toward the life his father had once loved.

“And it turns out I was running from a blessing.”

The words settled softly between them.

A truth long delayed.

But no less powerful.

As darkness settled over Hope Isles, lights flickered on throughout the town.

Warm.

Steady.

Welcoming.

And somewhere beyond the visible horizon, another chapter of the story was already unfolding.

Because Hope House had been built for second chances.

But what no one yet realized was this:

The next season would require the entire island to come together.

A storm was coming.

Not one from the sea.

One that would test everything Hope Isles believed about faith, community, and hope.

And at the center of it all would be James Carter.

Just as his grandfather once was.

To Be Continued…

Hope Isles: A New Beginning/Chapter Nineteen-The Return

The news spread through Hope Isles faster than anyone expected.

Which was impressive considering James had only told three people.

Sarah.

Ethan.

June.

And somehow, by lunchtime, half the island seemed to know.

James sat in Sit Awhile staring at his coffee.

“You told everyone.”

June looked offended.

“I absolutely did not.”

“You absolutely did.”

“I only mentioned it to one person.”

James raised an eyebrow.

“One person?”

“Maybe two.”

Ethan laughed.

“Translation: the whole island knows.”

June pointed a finger at him.

“Details matter.”

“No, they don’t.”

“Yes, they do.”

“No, they really don’t.”

Sarah shook her head.

“Sometimes I wonder how any of us survive.”

Joe walked by carrying a tray.

“Honestly, it’s a miracle.”

Nobody disagreed.

Three days later, James stood at the small ferry terminal.

The morning sky was clear.

The water calm.

A light breeze moved across the harbor.

Beside him stood Sarah, Ethan, June, Walter, and what felt like half of Hope Isles.

James looked around.

“You know this isn’t a parade, right?”

Ethan grinned.

“Too late.”

“It absolutely feels like a parade.”

June smiled.

“We prefer the term community support.”

Walter chuckled softly.

“Same thing.”

James shook his head.

Yet secretly, he was grateful.

Because if he was nervous, he could only imagine how his father felt.

The ferry appeared in the distance.

A small shape growing larger with every passing minute.

Conversation slowly faded.

People watched.

Waited.

Prayed.

Some knew the story.

Others only knew pieces.

But everyone understood one thing.

Something important was happening.

As the ferry pulled alongside the dock, James felt his heart pounding.

Passengers began stepping off.

Families.

Tourists.

Workers.

Then finally—

a familiar figure appeared.

His father.

Older than when James had last seen him.

A little weaker.

Walking carefully.

But standing tall.

For a moment he simply stopped.

Looking around.

Taking everything in.

The harbor.

The lighthouse.

The church steeple.

The island.

Home.

His eyes immediately filled with tears.

James started forward.

His father met him halfway.

Neither spoke.

Words suddenly felt too small.

Instead, they embraced.

Longer this time.

Neither concerned with who was watching.

Neither concerned with pride.

When they finally stepped apart, his father wiped his eyes and laughed.

“I was hoping nobody would be here.”

James looked behind him.

At the crowd.

At June.

At Ethan.

At what appeared to be half the island.

“That was never going to happen.”

His father laughed.

The sound surprised even him.

Then Walter stepped forward.

For a moment both men simply stared at one another.

Decades of history standing between them.

Recognition slowly appeared in his father’s eyes.

“Walter?”

Walter smiled.

“Welcome home, Daniel.”

Daniel Carter.

The name felt unfamiliar to many in Hope Isles.

But not to Walter.

Not to the island.

Not to the memories buried beneath years of absence.

Daniel looked around again.

As if seeing ghosts and blessings at the same time.

“I never thought I’d come back.”

Walter nodded.

“I know.”

“I’m sorry.”

Walter’s expression softened.

“For what?”

“For leaving.”

Walter smiled.

“We were always saving your seat.”

Daniel blinked rapidly.

Emotion overwhelming him.

The years suddenly felt both long and short.

Lost and redeemed.

Broken and restored.

Later that afternoon, James walked with his father through town.

Every corner seemed to trigger a memory.

Every building carried a story.

Daniel pointed toward an old storefront.

“My mother used to buy bread there.”

The building now housed a bookstore.

A few blocks later he stopped again.

“There used to be a bait shop there.”

James smiled.

“Now it’s an ice cream place.”

Daniel laughed.

“Probably an improvement.”

As they continued walking, people greeted him.

Some remembered him.

Most didn’t.

Yet every welcome felt genuine.

No bitterness.

No resentment.

Just grace.

That surprised him more than anything.

By evening, they reached the small cemetery overlooking the ocean.

James knew immediately where his father wanted to go.

The headstone was simple.

Weathered.

Steady.

Much like the man buried beneath it.

THOMAS CARTER

Beloved Father

Faithful Friend

Servant of God

Daniel stood motionless.

The wind moved gently through the grass.

The ocean shimmered beyond the hill.

For several minutes he said nothing.

Then quietly—

almost like a prayer—

he spoke.

“I’m sorry it took me so long.”

James stepped back.

Giving him space.

This wasn’t a conversation between father and son.

It was one between a son and the father he had lost.

Daniel knelt slowly beside the grave.

Tears falling freely now.

No longer hidden.

No longer resisted.

Years of grief finally finding release.

“I was angry.”

His voice cracked.

“I blamed everyone.”

Another pause.

Another tear.

“But mostly I blamed God.”

The confession disappeared into the ocean breeze.

Yet somehow the burden seemed to lift with it.

James watched silently.

Understanding.

Healing wasn’t forgetting.

Healing was finally telling the truth.

As the sun began to set, Daniel stood.

His eyes were red.

His shoulders lighter.

His heart freer.

For the first time in decades, he looked at peace.

As they walked back toward town, he looked at James.

“You know something?”

“What?”

Daniel smiled.

“Your grandfather would have loved this place.”

James laughed.

“Dad…”

Daniel stopped.

Then laughed too.

“You’re right.”

He looked around at Hope Isles.

At the harbor.

At the church.

At the people.

At the life his father once loved.

“He never really left, did he?”

James looked toward the lighthouse standing in the distance.

“No.”

Walter’s words echoed in his mind.

Sometimes God brings us home so He can show us where we came from.

As darkness settled over Hope Isles, lights began appearing in windows throughout town.

Warm.

Inviting.

Hopeful.

And for the first time in nearly forty years, three generations of the Carter family seemed connected again.

One in memory.

One in healing.

One in purpose.

And none of them had reached the end of their story yet.

Because Hope Isles still had one more surprise waiting.

A surprise hidden in the past.

One that would soon reveal why James’s arrival on the island had never been an accident at all.

To Be Continued…

Loving Our Immigrant Neighbors

Today’s a new day! 

One of the most beautiful truths found throughout Scripture is this: every person is created in the image of God.

That truth doesn’t stop at a border.

It doesn’t depend on the language someone speaks, the color of their passport, or the country they once called home.

It is a truth that reminds us that every person has immeasurable value because they are loved by their Creator.

Today, my heart is especially drawn toward the immigrant community.

Behind every journey is a story.

Some came seeking opportunity. Others came to reunite with family. Some fled violence, persecution, or desperate circumstances. Many have sacrificed everything they knew in the hope of building a safer, better future for those they love.

While every person’s story is different, one thing remains the same: they deserve to be treated with dignity, kindness, and respect.

As followers of Jesus, our first response should never be fear or indifference. Our first response should be love.

Throughout His earthly ministry, Jesus consistently noticed the people others overlooked. He welcomed those on the margins, showed compassion to those in need, and reminded us that loving our neighbor is not optional—it is central to following Him.

Loving our immigrant neighbors does not require us to agree on every political question or every policy debate. Faithful Christians can hold different views about immigration laws and border security while still agreeing that every human being deserves compassion and should be treated with dignity.

The Gospel calls us to something higher than winning arguments.

It calls us to love.

That love may look like volunteering with a local ministry, helping a family learn English, providing meals, supporting legal aid ministries, mentoring children, offering friendship to someone who feels alone, or simply taking the time to listen to another person’s story.

Sometimes the greatest ministry begins with seeing someone who feels invisible.

The Church has an incredible opportunity to reflect the heart of Christ.

Imagine churches becoming places where newcomers find hope instead of suspicion, friendship instead of isolation, and grace instead of rejection.

Imagine believers praying not only for their own families but also for the families who have traveled difficult roads in search of safety, stability, or a new beginning.

The love of Christ has always crossed every barrier humanity has tried to build.

When we remember that, our hearts begin to change.

Today, let’s pray for immigrant families in our neighborhoods and throughout the world. Pray for their safety, for wisdom for those making difficult decisions, for churches to faithfully serve their communities, and for our leaders as they seek solutions that uphold both justice and compassion.

Then ask the Lord a simple but life-changing question:

“Jesus, how can You use me to love my neighbors today?”

Because prayer is never meant to end with “Amen.”

Prayer changes us.

Prayer opens our eyes.

Prayer moves our hands and feet.

May we become known as people who welcome others with the same grace that Christ has shown us.

One day, people from every tribe, every language, every nation, and every people will stand together before the throne of God, worshiping Jesus with one voice.

Until then, may we live as citizens of His Kingdom—loving generously, serving humbly, praying faithfully, and reflecting the heart of Christ to everyone we meet.

Prayer:

Dear God, we lift up immigrant families around the world and in our own communities. You know every journey, every fear, every hope, and every need. Protect those who are vulnerable, comfort those who are grieving, strengthen families facing uncertainty, and provide opportunities for peace and flourishing. Give wisdom to our leaders as they make difficult decisions, and help Your Church to be a place of compassion, truth, and hope. Teach us to love our neighbors as You have loved us, so that our lives point others to Jesus Christ. In His powerful and holy name we pray, Amen.

If We Don’t Look And Act Like Jesus, Why Would Anyone Want Jesus?

Today’s a new day! ~OC

One of the hardest questions I wrestle with is this:

If I didn’t know Jesus, would the way many Christians act make me want to know Him… or run the other direction?

That’s not a question for “those Christians.” It’s a question for every one of us who claims His name.

Over the years, I’ve had countless conversations with people who don’t believe in Christ. What has surprised me isn’t that they reject Jesus. In fact, many don’t.

Most have no problem with Jesus.

They admire His compassion. They respect His love for the forgotten. They appreciate that He defended the outcast, touched the untouchable, forgave sinners, and confronted religious hypocrisy.

The problem they keep describing isn’t Jesus.

The problem is many of the people who claim to represent Him.

They see Christians who are quicker to judge than to listen.

Quicker to condemn than to comfort.

Quicker to win an argument than to win a soul.

Quicker to defend a political party than to defend the Gospel.

They hear us talk about love while watching us treat people with contempt.

They hear us preach grace while refusing to extend it.

They hear us speak about forgiveness while clinging to bitterness.

Can we really blame a hurting world for being confused?

Jesus said the world would know we belong to Him by our love—not by our outrage, our social media posts, our political victories, or our ability to prove someone wrong.

The early Church turned the world upside down because they looked like Jesus.

They served.

They sacrificed.

They forgave.

They loved people no one else wanted.

They cared for the poor.

They welcomed the stranger.

They laid down their lives rather than demand their rights.

Somewhere along the way, too many of us have become known more for what we’re against than for Who we follow.

That should break our hearts.

The Church was never called to mirror the culture. We were called to reflect Christ.

Being the hands and feet of Jesus isn’t a catchy phrase. It’s our calling.

It means feeding the hungry.

Visiting the lonely.

Welcoming the broken.

Standing with the hurting.

Speaking truth with humility.

Offering grace without compromising the Gospel.

Loving people before expecting them to live like believers.

The world is desperately searching for hope.

Searching for purpose.

Searching for unconditional love.

Searching for life.

They’re looking everywhere because too often they don’t see those things in us.

Imagine what would happen if Christians became impossible to hate—not because we compromised truth, but because we loved so radically that even those who disagreed with us couldn’t deny the presence of Christ.

Imagine if our first instinct was mercy instead of judgment.

Listening instead of assuming.

Serving instead of demanding.

Loving instead of labeling.

That’s exactly what Jesus did.

The Gospel has never changed.

Jesus has never changed.

His love still transforms lives.

His grace still saves.

His cross is still enough.

Maybe the greatest revival our communities need doesn’t begin with the lost finding Jesus.

Maybe it begins with the Church looking like Jesus again.

Lord, let us be known for our love.

Let our words match our witness.

Let our lives point people toward You instead of away from You.

May we never become a stumbling block to those You came to save.

May we truly become Your hands and feet in a world desperate to experience Your hope, Your grace, and Your life.

Amen.

Dear God, We Give You This Moment

Today’s a new day!

This past Friday, the church Laura and I are currently attending experienced an unimaginable tragedy. The sixteen-year-old grandson of the founding pastor lost his life in a diving accident.

There are moments in life when words seem painfully inadequate. No explanation can remove the grief. No sermon can erase the tears. No answer can completely satisfy the questions that arise when a young life is taken far too soon.

My heart breaks for his family. It breaks for his friends. It breaks for this church family and for everyone whose life was touched by this remarkable young man.

Today, I simply pray:

Jesus, surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Hold them close when the silence feels overwhelming. Be their comfort when words fail. Be their strength when every step feels impossible.

Scripture reminds us that “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Those words are not clichés. They are promises for moments exactly like this.

As believers, we don’t grieve without hope. We grieve honestly. We cry. We ask questions. We lean on one another. And we cling to the One who has already conquered death through the resurrection of Jesus Christ.

While none of us can fully understand why tragedies like this happen, I believe God is able to meet people in the deepest valleys of life. Throughout history, He has brought hope where there was despair, healing where there were wounds, and faith where there were questions. I pray He will do that again in our community.  

My prayer is that, even in the midst of heartbreaking loss, people throughout our county will encounter the love, grace, and presence of Jesus in a way they never have before. I pray that those who have drifted from God will seek Him. I pray that those who have never known Him will discover the hope found only in Christ. I pray that our churches will become places where the hurting are welcomed, the broken are loved, and the Gospel is lived with compassion.

Revival has often begun not in moments of comfort, but in moments when people recognized their desperate need for God. I pray that our response to this tragedy will be to love more deeply, serve more faithfully, pray more earnestly, and point more clearly to Jesus.

Today, there are no easy answers.

Only a Savior who weeps with those who weep.

Only a Shepherd who walks through the valley with His sheep.

Only a King who defeated death and promises eternal life to those who trust in Him.

So today, as one church family, one community, and one body of Christ…

Dear God, we give You this moment.

Bring comfort where there is sorrow.

Bring peace where there is anxiety.

Bring hope where there is despair.

Bring healing where hearts have been shattered.

And may Your love shine so brightly through Your people that many come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

Please join me in praying for this precious family, for the church family, and for everyone affected by this heartbreaking loss.~OC

Faces Covered, Hearts Exposed: What This Train Car Teaches Us About Hate And Christian Nationalism

Courage vs Cowards

Today’s a new day! Here are my thoughts on this photo taken on the Metro in Washington, D.C. The following are my thoughts and opinions. If you happen to disagree with me, I encourage you to take it up with God.

Look at this photo. A young woman sits alone on a train, surrounded by dozens of men in matching uniforms, faces covered, patches bearing flags. She meets the camera’s eye. They refuse to be seen.

This image is a parable. And it’s the opposite of the Gospel.

The Gospel unmasks. Hate hides.

Jesus never hid His face. He wept publicly, prayed publicly, died publicly. “I have spoken openly to the world,” He told His accusers. (John 18:20)

Hate loves masks. It loves anonymity, mobs, and intimidation. Why? Because deeds done in darkness don’t survive the light (John 3:20). When an ideology needs to cover faces to deliver its message, it’s already confessed something about that message.

Christian Nationalism too often puts a mask on Jesus. It takes the crucified Savior and dresses Him in the uniform of earthly power. But Christ doesn’t need our flags stitched to His robe. “My kingdom is not of this world” (John 18:36). When we try to make it of this world, we end up looking like this train car: coercive, not compelling.

The Gospel draws near. Hate surrounds.

Notice the posture here. One person, isolated. Many others, standing, looming. That’s not how Jesus moved through crowds. 

He touched lepers when others stepped back. He invited Zacchaeus down from a tree when the crowd boxed him out. He stopped for the woman no one else would look at. The Gospel breaks circles of exclusion. Hate forms them.

Christian Nationalism, at its worst, baptizes “us vs. them.” It defines who belongs and who threatens. But the cross destroyed the dividing wall of hostility (Ephesians 2:14). If our faith needs an enemy to stay strong, it isn’t Christian faith. It’s civil religion with a cross necklace.

The Gospel sees the individual. Hate sees categories.

I don’t know the woman’s name in the photo. You don’t either. But God does. She isn’t a symbol. She’s a person made in His image (Genesis 1:27)

Movements built on hate don’t see people. They see demographics, threats, problems to solve. They make you afraid to sit alone on a train in your own city. 

Jesus’s first question to people was often, “What do you want me to do for you?” (Mark 10:51). He saw individuals. Christian Nationalism tends to see a “nation to save” and turns people into footnotes. When saving “America” matters more than loving the person next to you on the Metro, we’ve lost the plot.

So what do we do when the train car feels like the world?

Uncover our own faces: Confess where contempt has crept into our hearts. It’s easy to hate the masked men too. Jesus doesn’t give us that option. “Love your enemies” (Luke 6:27) includes them.

Sit with the isolated: Who in your life feels like that woman on the train? The Gospel moves us toward them, not away. Proximity kills caricatures.

Refuse the idols of power and fear: The early church changed the Roman Empire without voting, lobbying, or taking up swords. They did it by loving radically and dying well. Our witness still works that way.

Remember what we’re witnessing to: Not a Christian nation. A crucified Christ. “We preach Christ crucified… the power of God and the wisdom of God” (1 Corinthians 1:23-24). 

This photo should grieve us. Not just because of what it says about them, but because of what it reveals about us. Every one of those masked hearts was knit together by God. Every one of them is someone Christ died for. So is she. So are you. So am I.

Hate says, “Cover your face and find your strength in numbers.” 

Jesus says, “Take up your cross and find your life by losing it.”

The train is still running. The choice is still ours. Which kingdom will we board? ~OC

God, What Are You Trying To Teach Me?

Today’s a new day!

Over the past twenty-plus years, I have walked through one of the most difficult journeys of my life. There have been diagnoses I never expected, hospital stays, surgeries, treatments, setbacks, moments of uncertainty, and seasons where I had no idea what tomorrow would bring.

People have often asked me, “Have you ever asked God, ‘Why me?'”

My answer has always been the same.

No.

Not because there is anything wrong with asking that question. In fact, many faithful men and women throughout Scripture poured out their hearts before God. They asked difficult questions. They lamented. They cried. They wrestled with pain. God is not afraid of our honest questions.

But for me personally, “Why me?” was never the question God placed on my heart.

Instead, from the very beginning of this journey, another question kept rising within me:

“God, what are You trying to teach me in this season?”

That simple shift changed everything.

Instead of only looking for an explanation, I began looking for His presence.

Instead of demanding answers, I started seeking wisdom.

Instead of focusing only on what I had lost, I began discovering what God was building inside of me.

Looking back over these twenty-plus years, I realize that some of life’s greatest lessons weren’t learned on the mountaintops. They were learned in hospital rooms, waiting rooms, sleepless nights, rehabilitation sessions, and quiet moments when all I could do was trust Jesus.

So, what has God taught me?

I’m glad you asked.

God has taught me that my identity is not found in my health but in Him.

When your body begins to fail, you quickly discover that your worth isn’t measured by what you can accomplish. My value has never been based on my strength, my productivity, or my abilities. My identity has always been found in being a child of God.

God has taught me that weakness is not failure.

The world celebrates strength, but God’s Kingdom often works through weakness. It is often in our weakest moments that His strength shines the brightest. My limitations have become opportunities for His power to be displayed.

God has taught me patience.

Healing rarely happens on our timetable. Answers don’t always come when we want them. Waiting has never been easy, but waiting with Jesus has shaped my faith in ways instant answers never could.

God has taught me to treasure every single day.

When you’ve stared mortality in the face, ordinary days become extraordinary gifts. A sunrise. A conversation with my bride, Laura. A laugh with a friend. A walk outside. These are no longer ordinary moments—they are reminders of God’s goodness.

God has taught me compassion.

Pain has a way of opening your eyes to the suffering of others. I have learned to notice the people sitting quietly in waiting rooms, the caregivers who are exhausted, the families praying for miracles, and the person who simply needs someone to listen.

God has taught me that prayer changes me.

Sometimes God changes our circumstances.

Sometimes He changes us while we’re in them.

Both are miracles.

God has taught me that hope is never wasted.

Hope isn’t pretending everything is okay.

Hope is believing that Jesus is still faithful when everything around you says otherwise.

Hope is trusting His promises even when you cannot yet see His plan.

Most importantly…

God has taught me that He will never leave me.

Not once.

Not in the emergency room.

Not in the hospital room.

Not during surgery.

Not during the difficult diagnoses.

Not during the darkest nights.

Not during the countless doctor’s appointments.

Not during the moments when I didn’t know what the future would hold.

Jesus has been faithful every single step of the journey.

If you’re reading this while walking through your own difficult season, maybe your question today is, “God, why me?”

If that’s where you are, know this: God welcomes your honesty.

But perhaps, when you’re ready, you might also ask another question:

“Lord, what are You trying to teach me in this season?”

That question doesn’t minimize the pain.

It doesn’t erase the tears.

It doesn’t guarantee immediate answers.

But it does position our hearts to receive what God may be doing beneath the surface.

I’ve learned that while God may not always remove the storm immediately, He is always present within it. Sometimes the greatest miracle isn’t that our circumstances change overnight—it’s that Christ transforms us as we walk through them.

My health journey has been long.

It has been difficult.

It has been painful.

But by God’s grace, it has also been one of the greatest classrooms of my life.

And for every lesson, every trial, every unexpected detour, and every reminder that His grace is sufficient…

I simply say:

“Thank You, Jesus.

Now, Lord…

What would You like to teach me next?” ~OC

Stop Negotiating The Terms Of Your Surrender To God

Today’s a new day!

One of the greatest struggles in the Christian life is not whether we believe in God—it is whether we are willing to surrender everything to Him.

Too often, we approach God with conditions.

“Lord, I’ll follow You… as long as You don’t ask me to give that up.”

“I’ll trust You… if You tell me the whole plan first.”

“I’ll obey… if it doesn’t cost me too much.”

“I’ll forgive… but only if they apologize.”

“I’ll go wherever You lead… except there.”

Without realizing it, we begin negotiating the terms of our surrender.

But surrender isn’t a negotiation.

It’s an act of complete trust.

Jesus never invited His disciples into a contract where both sides could bargain. He invited them into a relationship built on faith, love, and obedience.

When Jesus said, “Follow Me,” He didn’t hand them a detailed itinerary. He didn’t promise comfort, popularity, or an easy life. He simply asked them to trust Him.

And they did.

Real surrender says:

“Jesus, I don’t need to know every step because I know the One who is leading me.”

That kind of faith changes everything.

The truth is, partial surrender is still resistance.

When we hold tightly to our plans, our fears, our pride, our bitterness, or our desire for control, we leave little room for God to do what only He can do.

God isn’t trying to take something good away from us.

He is trying to give us something far greater than we could ever create on our own.

Many of us spend years asking God to bless our plans instead of asking Him to replace them with His.

Yet Scripture reminds us that His ways are higher than ours and His thoughts are higher than ours. What feels like a loss in the moment often becomes the doorway to God’s greatest blessings.

Looking back over my own life, I can honestly say that some of the hardest seasons were also the seasons that taught me the deepest lessons about surrender.

Illness.

Loss.

Disappointment.

Waiting.

None of those chapters were easy.

But every one of them taught me that God’s faithfulness is not dependent upon my understanding.

There were moments when I wanted answers.

God invited me to trust.

There were moments when I wanted control.

God invited me to surrender.

There were moments when I wanted my own timeline.

God reminded me that His timing is always perfect.

I’ve learned that peace doesn’t come from having every question answered.

Peace comes from placing every unanswered question into the hands of Jesus.

The cross itself is the ultimate picture of surrender.

Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane,

“Not My will, but Yours be done.”

If the Son of God surrendered Himself completely to the Father’s will, how much more should we?

God cannot fully direct a life that refuses to let go of the steering wheel.

He calls us to lay down our dreams, our fears, our expectations, our comfort, our pride, and even our understanding.

Not because He wants less for us.

Because He wants more.

His plans are always better than our plans.

His purpose is greater than our preferences.

His peace is deeper than our control.

So today, stop negotiating the terms of your surrender.

Stop asking God to fit into your agenda.

Instead, ask Him to make your heart fit His.

Lay everything at the foot of the Cross.

Hold nothing back.

Trust Him with the parts of your life that feel uncertain.

Give Him your future.

Give Him your pain.

Give Him your dreams.

Give Him your fears.

Give Him everything.

Because the safest place you will ever be is completely surrendered to Jesus Christ.

True freedom is not found in controlling your life.

It is found in placing your life into the hands of the One who gave His life for you.

Today is a good day to stop negotiating…

…and simply say,

“Lord Jesus, I am Yours.

Have Your way in me.”

Amen. ~OC

Not Yet: The Day God Sent Me Back

I don’t share the following two encounters very often. The reason is simple—they’re deeply personal, incredibly overwhelming, and whenever I do share them, there are always people who want to explain them away, offer their own opinions, or question what happened.

That’s okay.

After years of keeping the following two life experiences mostly to myself, I’ve reached a place in my journey where I’m no longer concerned with convincing anyone. My responsibility is simply to tell the story God has given me to tell.

Over the next two posts, I want to share two totally different experiences that forever changed my life.

Here is the first one. 

On April 16, 2019, I underwent one of my many stomach surgeries after years of battling serious health challenges. During that surgery, something happened that I will never forget.

I went to Heaven.

As impossible as that may sound to some, I know what I experienced.

I remember walking on streets of gold unlike anything I could have ever imagined. The colors were beyond anything my earthly eyes had ever seen before—or have seen since. Everything radiated the glory of God in a way that words simply cannot describe.

But perhaps the most incredible part was this…

I had a completely new body.

There were no scars.

No feeding tubes.

No medical devices.

No pain.

No weakness.

Every reminder of my years of illness was gone.

For the first time in a very long time, I felt completely whole.

As I continued walking, I saw a set of steps just ahead of me. When I placed my right foot on the very first step, I heard the voice of God with absolute clarity.

“Not yet.”

Then He told me that He still had more work for me to do on earth.

The next thing I remember was waking up in the recovery room surrounded by doctors and nurses.

Apparently, during the procedure they believed something medically significant had happened because when I awoke, I wasn’t speaking. I simply kept pointing toward the sky.

It would be nearly twenty-four hours before I could really speak again.

If I’m being completely honest, I remember feeling almost depressed after waking up.

I didn’t want to come back.

At that point in my life, I weighed only 110 pounds. I had been unable to eat solid food for several years. I needed a voice amplifier just to communicate. My body was exhausted after years of surgeries, treatments, and constant battles.

I was ready to be home with Jesus.

My question wasn’t, “Why did this happen?”

My question was, “Lord…why did You send me back?”

I didn’t understand.

Not yet.

What I couldn’t see in that recovery room was that God already had the next chapter written.

Almost seven months later, in November 3, 2019, Jesus would allow me to experience a miracle that would change not only my life but also the lives of countless people who would witness it firsthand or hear about it in the years that followed.

Sometimes God says “not yet” because your story isn’t finished.

Sometimes He sends you back because someone else still needs the hope that only your testimony can give.

Looking back now, I understand that Heaven wasn’t simply shown to me as a destination—it was given to me as a reminder.

A reminder that this world is not our home.

A reminder that suffering has an expiration date.

A reminder that God still has purpose even when we cannot see it.

And a reminder that when God says, “Not yet,” it’s never a rejection.

It’s an assignment. One that can lead us on a crazy beautiful journey. 

A different, but equally important encounter is coming up in the next post. ~OC

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