Dear America

What happened to character and decency in America?

The married President of the United States publicly admires a woman’s backside, asks her to stand so the audience can admire it too, and the crowd responds with cheers and applause.

Let that sink in for a moment.

If something like this happened in someone’s workplace, there would likely be consequences. If it happened in a school, there would be disciplinary action. Yet when the President of the United States does it, people cheer.

And I can’t help but wonder how many in that audience proudly identify themselves as Christians.

When did we stop expecting character, integrity, respect, and basic decency from our leaders? When did political loyalty become more important than the values we claim to believe in?

Being a Christian doesn’t mean defending everything a politician says or does simply because he or she represents our preferred political party.

Jesus didn’t call us to worship political leaders. He called us to follow Him.

America doesn’t become a Christian nation because we say it is. Our faith should be reflected in how we live, how we treat others, and what we are willing to stand up for.

And perhaps the hardest question isn’t what’s wrong with America. It’s what’s happening inside the Church and the hearts of those who claim to follow Jesus.

Before the Christian community points fingers at the world, perhaps we need to get on our knees and examine our own hearts.

Would Jesus be pleased with what so many Christians applauded that night? Would He recognize their priorities? Would their actions reflect His character?

Church, it’s time for some serious soul-searching. Stop making excuses for behavior you would condemn in someone you disagree with politically. Stop confusing loyalty to a political leader with loyalty to Jesus.

The question isn’t whether America is living up to the label of a Christian nation. Which sadly in my opinion we are not. The question is whether we are living up to the name of Christ.

Because one day we won’t stand before God to defend our political party, our favorite president, or our voting record. We will stand before Him accountable for how we lived.

Maybe it’s time we started acting and living out what we preach. I think that would please Jesus. ~OC

November 1, 2026 0

What Has Happened?

STOP SCROLLING. WE NEED TO TALK.

People are going hungry in America. Families are struggling to put food on the table. Some people are being forced to make an impossible choice between buying groceries and purchasing the medications they need to survive. Gas prices are putting additional pressure on already stretched budgets. Farmers are fighting to keep their operations alive. And America is involved in a war that so many people never wanted to see happen.

Meanwhile, look at what seems to be consuming the attention of our nation’s leadership.

Renaming an ocean. Building a ballroom. Supporting an advertisement that attacks a survivor of childhood rape. And, amid all the political maneuvering, questions about money, power, and who stands to benefit.

STOP AND THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A MOMENT.

When families are struggling to survive, shouldn’t their struggles matter?

When people cannot afford their medications, shouldn’t that demand our attention?

When farmers are fighting to keep their livelihoods, shouldn’t we be asking how we can help?

When a survivor of childhood sexual violence speaks out, shouldn’t our first response be compassion rather than cruelty?

Whatever your political party, these are questions of human dignity, priorities, and basic decency.

And that brings me to a question that weighs heavily on my heart.

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO THE CHURCH?

I am talking about the Church that claims to follow Jesus Christ.

The Jesus who fed the hungry.

The Jesus who cared for the sick.

The Jesus who welcomed the outcast.

The Jesus who defended the vulnerable and confronted religious leaders when their actions contradicted their words.

In Matthew 25:40, Jesus reminds us that how we treat the least among us matters to Him.

So how can we claim to follow Jesus while overlooking people who are hungry, struggling, hurting, and desperately trying to survive?

How can we preach about morality while excusing cruelty when it comes from someone whose politics we support?

How can we proclaim the sanctity of human life while showing so little concern for the people who are struggling to live theirs?

And how can we call ourselves followers of Jesus when our political loyalties sometimes seem stronger than our commitment to His teachings?

CHURCH, WE NEED TO TAKE A LONG, HARD LOOK IN THE MIRROR.

Supporting a politician does not automatically make someone a bad Christian. Christians can disagree about policies, priorities, and political solutions.

But no politician should ever become so important to us that we abandon the very principles Jesus taught.

No political party deserves our unquestioning loyalty.

No president should be above accountability.

No political victory should be more important than human dignity.

And no Christian should have to twist the words of Jesus to justify the behavior of a politician.

Our faith should shape our politics, not our politics reshape our faith.

Sadly, too many Christians seem willing to overlook behavior they would condemn if it came from someone on the other side of the political aisle.

That should trouble us.

Not because Christians must agree on every political issue, but because our commitment to truth, compassion, justice, and integrity should never depend on who benefits politically.

If we defend cruelty when it comes from our side and condemn it only when it comes from the other side, what does that say about our character?

If we care more about winning political battles than caring for our neighbors, what does that say about our faith?

And if the world looks at the Church and sees more political allegiance than the love of Jesus, what kind of witness are we offering?

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO AMERICA?

I grew up believing that America was a place where hard work mattered, where helping your neighbor was something to be proud of, and where people could disagree without losing their humanity.

We have never been a perfect nation. We have always struggled with injustice, division, and our failure to live up to our highest ideals.

But we should never stop striving to become better.

We should never become so divided that we stop caring about one another.

We should never become so consumed by politics that we lose sight of the people behind the political arguments.

And we should never accept the suffering of our neighbors as an acceptable price for protecting our political interests.

This is not simply a Republican issue or a Democratic issue.

It is a human issue.

It is a moral issue.

It is about what kind of country we want to be and what kind of people we want to become.

I don’t expect politicians to solve every problem overnight. I don’t expect any administration to be perfect. And I recognize that people can disagree honestly about the best ways to address our nation’s challenges.

But I do expect us to care.

I expect us to demand accountability.

I expect us to defend the vulnerable, tell the truth, and remember that leadership should be about serving people, not simply accumulating power.

And I expect the Church to lead by example.

Not by waving flags from pulpits.

Not by treating politicians like saviors.

Not by excusing behavior that contradicts the teachings of Jesus.

But by feeding the hungry, caring for the sick, standing with the vulnerable, speaking truth to power, and loving our neighbors—even when doing so is politically inconvenient.

Jesus did not tell us to love only the people who vote like us.

He did not tell us to defend only the people who belong to our political tribe.

He called us to love our neighbors.

Period.

CHURCH, AMERICA IS WATCHING. AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, GOD KNOWS OUR HEARTS.

Maybe it’s time we stopped asking only what is wrong with the other side and started asking what is wrong with us.

Maybe it’s time we stopped confusing political power with spiritual revival.

Maybe it’s time we remembered that the success of a political movement is not the same thing as the advancement of God’s Kingdom.

And maybe it’s time we returned to the simple, uncomfortable, life-changing teachings of Jesus Christ.

Feed the hungry.

Care for the sick.

Welcome the stranger.

Defend the vulnerable.

Love your neighbor.

Speak the truth.

Practice humility.

Show mercy.

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO THE CHURCH?

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO AMERICA?

Those questions deserve more than angry arguments on social media. They deserve honest reflection, courageous leadership, and a willingness to change.

I don’t want a Church that simply reflects the anger, divisions, and political loyalties of the world.

I want a Church that reflects Jesus.

I want an America where a struggling family matters more than political theater, where human dignity is not determined by political affiliation, and where compassion is not treated as a weakness.

And I want Christians who are willing to hold everyone accountable—including the politicians they support and the religious leaders they admire.

Because following Jesus was never supposed to be about protecting our political team.

IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE ABOUT BECOMING MORE LIKE HIM.

America doesn’t need more political idols.

The Church doesn’t need more partisan loyalty disguised as faith.

We need more compassion. More courage. More humility. More truth. More justice. And a whole lot more Jesus.

It’s time to wake up, Church.

It’s time to wake up, America.

And it’s time for all of us to decide what matters most.

Because when political loyalty becomes more important than human dignity, and when the Church becomes more concerned with power than with the people Jesus called us to love, something has gone terribly wrong.

“Let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!” — Amos 5:24

Lord, forgive us when we care more about winning than loving, more about power than serving, and more about defending our political loyalties than standing for what is right. Break our hearts for the things that break Yours. Teach us to see people before politics, compassion before convenience, and truth before tribal loyalty.

May we never become so consumed with politics that we forget Jesus. ~OC

October 23, 2026 0

What About the Children?

Today’s a new day!

An estimated 205,000 children have had a parent detained by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement since early 2025. Researchers estimate that approximately 145,000 of those children are American citizens. Behind every statistic is a frightened child whose world changed in an instant.

This debate is often framed around immigration policy, border security, and the rule of law. Those are important conversations. But there is another question we cannot afford to ignore:

What about the children?

What happens to the little boy who comes home from school and discovers that Mom never came back? What happens to the little girl who watches her father disappear into detention and doesn’t know when—or if—she will ever see him again? What happens to the grandparents, neighbors, churches, teachers, and communities left trying to pick up the pieces?

These children did not choose where they were born. They did not choose their parents’ immigration status. They are innocent. Many are American citizens. Yet they often carry the emotional weight of decisions they never made.

As Christians, our response cannot depend on politics. Our response must be shaped by Jesus.

Jesus welcomed children when others overlooked them. He blessed them. He protected them. He warned against causing them harm. He made it clear that caring for “the least of these” is not optional—it is part of what it means to follow Him.

The Church should be asking difficult questions.

Who is checking on these children?

Who is making sure they have food?

Who is helping them process trauma?

Who is praying with them?

Who is opening their homes, offering counseling, providing childcare, or simply reminding them they are not forgotten?

If we believe every child is made in the image of God, then every child deserves our compassion—regardless of nationality, politics, or the circumstances surrounding their family.

The Church has always been at its best when it has stepped into broken places with the love of Christ. This is one of those moments.

This is not about choosing between compassion and the law. A nation can enforce its laws while followers of Jesus demonstrate mercy to those caught in the middle. Those two ideas are not mutually exclusive.

So I’ll ask again:

What about the children?

May the Church be known not for making excuses, but for showing up. Not for debating who deserves compassion, but for extending it. And not for looking away from suffering, but for reflecting the heart of Jesus to every child who needs hope. ~OC

July 28, 2026 0

What I Look For In A Leader

Today’s a new day!

As followers of Jesus, we are called to pray for those in authority (1 Timothy 2:1–2). We are also called to exercise wisdom and discernment when evaluating the character of those who seek to lead.

When I consider a political candidate, my first question isn’t, “What party do they belong to?” My question is, “What kind of person are they becoming?”

These are some of the qualities I look for.

I look for a joyful heart. Not a manufactured smile for the cameras, but a genuine joy that reflects gratitude, humility, and hope. Scripture reminds us that “the joy of the Lord is your strength” (Nehemiah 8:10). A joyful heart often points to a soul that isn’t driven solely by fear, anger, or resentment.

I look for a clear mind that produces clear thoughts and the ability to express those thoughts with maturity. Leadership requires wisdom. Decisions affect millions of lives, and words have the power to unite or divide. Mature communication matters.

I look for self-restraint. In a culture that rewards outrage and impulsive reactions, self-control is becoming increasingly rare. Yet Scripture calls self-control one of the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23). A leader who cannot govern themselves will struggle to govern wisely.

I look for someone who values people more than power. Power should never become the goal; it should be a tool used to serve others. Jesus, the greatest leader who ever lived, washed the feet of His disciples instead of demanding they serve Him. That is the model of leadership I admire.

I look for someone who respects people—even those who disagree with them. We don’t have to agree with everyone to treat them with dignity. Every person bears the image of God. Civility is not weakness; it is evidence of maturity.

I look for someone who can receive constructive criticism. None of us has all the answers. Wise leaders surround themselves with truth-tellers instead of yes-men. Humility allows correction to become growth instead of offense.

Finally, I look for a heart that produces both kindness and strength. Kindness without conviction can become compromise. Strength without kindness can become cruelty. Jesus embodied both perfectly. He stood firmly for truth while extending extraordinary compassion to people who were hurting.

As I look across today’s political landscape, I find myself longing to see these qualities displayed more consistently in our leaders. That longing isn’t about one party or another. It reflects a desire for leadership that more closely resembles the character Scripture commends.

Perhaps the greatest challenge isn’t simply asking whether our leaders possess these qualities.

Perhaps it’s asking whether we do.

Are we joyful?

Are we self-controlled?

Do we value people over winning arguments?

Do we listen well?

Do we show kindness without abandoning truth?

The Church should be known for these qualities long before we expect them from Washington, our state capitals, or city halls.

Our ultimate hope has never rested in a president, governor, senator, or political party. Our hope rests in Jesus Christ—the King whose kingdom cannot be shaken.

So let us pray for our leaders. Let us vote with wisdom. Let us speak with grace. And above all, let us live in such a way that the character of Christ shines through us, regardless of who occupies positions of earthly authority.

Because while elections shape nations, transformed hearts change the world. ~OC

July 17, 2026 0

Church Silence

Today’s a new day! I am deeply thankful for my church home and for a pastor who is not afraid to speak truth, even when it is uncomfortable. Yesterday, during service, my pastor directly addressed the racist post made by the current President of the United States. In a time when silence has become the easier choice, I am proud of his commitment to confront the issues of our world when they intersect with faith, justice, and the teachings of Jesus. The church was never meant to exist in isolation, sealed off from the pain, hatred, and injustice happening beyond its walls. Faith that refuses to engage the real world is not faith at all—it is avoidance.

That said, I can’t help but ask an important and uncomfortable question: did your pastor address racism yesterday? And if not, why not? It saddens me when churches turn a blind eye to what is happening outside the four walls of their sanctuary. Whether out of fear, concern over attendance, or a desire to remain “neutral,” silence in the face of racism speaks volumes. Personally, I could not belong to a church that is either afraid to address the issues our world faces or willingly chooses to ignore them. Following Jesus means standing for truth, love, and justice—even when it costs us something. Anything less is a distortion of the Gospel. ~OC

February 9, 2026 0