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A Love Connection

Today’s a new day! 

Yesterday, Laura and I drove up to North Florida. If you have lived in Florida or parts of the South, you know what time of season it is. Yes, it’s love bug season. Those little insects can be a nuisance, but what if we looked at these annoying little bugs a little closer. Maybe there is a lesson to be learned. 

Every year in parts of the South, love bugs show up in swarms—small, unassuming insects that spend much of their short lives attached to one another. They’re not flashy or impressive, and to most people they’re just a seasonal nuisance. But if you pause long enough to notice, there’s something quietly symbolic about them. Love bugs are almost always seen in pairs, joined together, moving as one. In a simple, created way, they reflect a picture of connection, persistence, and a kind of devoted closeness that’s hard to ignore.

That image can point us to something far deeper—the Gospel of Jesus Christ. The Gospel tells the story of a God who didn’t remain distant, but chose to draw near to us, to bind Himself to humanity through Jesus. Where love bugs cling together for a season, Jesus stepped into our world and held fast to us even through suffering, rejection, and the cross. Scripture reminds us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ—not failure, not pain, not even death. That’s a far stronger bond than anything we see in nature.

There’s also something humbling about love bugs. They don’t try to stand out or make a name for themselves—they simply live out what they were created to do. In the same way, the Gospel calls us to a life not centered on self-promotion, but on abiding in Christ and walking in love. Jesus said that people would recognize His followers by their love, not by their status or accomplishments. When we remain “connected” to Him, like branches to a vine, our lives begin to reflect His grace, patience, and mercy to those around us.

So the next time you see those tiny insects paired together, maybe it’s more than just a seasonal inconvenience. Maybe it’s a small reminder of a greater truth: that we were created for connection—first with God, and then with one another. And through the Gospel, Jesus has made a way for that connection to be restored, secured, and sustained forever. ~OC

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More Than Mortality: A Call To Live Well

Today’s a New Day!

There’s a question that tends to follow me these days as I walk through this health journey: “Do you think about your mortality?” And the honest answer is yes—but probably not in the way people expect. Because the truth is, this isn’t just my reality; it’s everyone’s. Whether we acknowledge it or not, every one of us is living on borrowed time. None of us know when our final breath will come. We make plans, we chase goals, we assume tomorrow is waiting—but that’s never a guarantee. And maybe that’s not meant to scare us, but to wake us up.

Instead of obsessing over when the clock might run out, I’ve started asking a different question: what am I doing with the time I have right now? Am I using it in a way that matters? Am I choosing love over division, compassion over judgment, action over apathy? It’s easy to get caught up in labels—who people vote for, how they live, what they believe—but none of those things will matter as much as how we treated one another. At the end of the day, our legacy won’t be built on opinions shouted the loudest, but on kindness lived out the longest.

Time is a gift, even on the hardest days. Especially on the hardest days. And maybe the real challenge isn’t figuring out how much time we have left, but deciding what kind of impact we want to leave behind. Are we lifting people up? Are we showing grace where it’s least expected? Are we making someone’s load a little lighter? Those are the questions worth wrestling with.

Because when the clock does finally run out—and it will for all of us—it won’t be about how long we lived, but how well we loved. ~OC

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Not A Coincidence

Today’s a new day!

There are moments in life when you look back and wonder how you made it through. The nights that felt endless, the heartbreak that cut deeper than words, the battles you thought would surely take you out—but somehow, you’re still here. It’s easy to chalk it up to luck, coincidence, or sheer willpower. But the truth runs deeper than that. You survived everything that was meant to destroy you, and that’s not a coincidence—that was Jesus. In the middle of the chaos, when you couldn’t see a way forward, He was already making one. When you were too weak to stand, He was carrying you. Even when you didn’t recognize His hand, His presence never left your side.

Jesus doesn’t just show up in the good moments; He proves Himself in the fire. Every trial you walked through and came out of wasn’t just something you endured—it was something He brought you through. The pain didn’t have the final say. The enemy didn’t win. Your story didn’t end there. What was meant to break you became part of the testimony that now defines you. So when doubt tries to creep in and tell you that you’re alone or forgotten, remember your own history. Look at the evidence of grace all over your life. You’re still standing, still breathing, still moving forward—and that’s all the proof you need. Jesus has been faithful before, and He will be faithful again. ~OC

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Living For Approval

Today’s a new day! 

There’s a quiet trap many of us fall into without even realizing it: living for the approval of people. At first, it feels harmless—wanting to be liked, appreciated, or accepted. But over time, that desire can grow into something that shapes our identity, dictates our decisions, and ultimately controls our peace. The truth is simple but sobering: if you live for the approval of people, you will eventually be crushed by their rejection. Human praise is unpredictable. It shifts with moods, trends, and opinions. One moment you’re celebrated, the next you’re criticized. If your worth is tied to those voices, your foundation will never be steady.

Scripture calls us to something far greater. Instead of seeking validation from people, we are invited to find our identity in Christ. God’s love is not based on performance, popularity, or perfection—it is constant and unchanging. When Jesus walked the earth, He was both praised and rejected, often by the same crowds. Yet He never wavered, because His mission was anchored in the will of the Father, not the applause of people. As followers of Christ, we are called to live the same way—faithful, not famous; obedient, not approved.

When you shift your focus from people to God, something powerful happens. You become free. Free from the pressure to please everyone. Free from the fear of criticism. Free to walk boldly in the calling God has placed on your life. Rejection may still come, but it no longer defines you. Instead, you stand secure in the truth that you are already accepted, already loved, and already chosen by the One whose opinion matters most. And in that place, you don’t just survive rejection—you rise above it. ~OC

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We Need More Mr. Rogers’

Today’s a new day!

There was something quietly powerful about Fred Rogers. He didn’t need to raise his voice to be heard, didn’t rely on insults to make a point, and never tried to win by tearing someone else down. In a world that often feels louder, harsher, and quicker to judge, his gentle way of speaking truth with kindness stands out more than ever. The neighborhoods he built on Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood weren’t just for children—they were a blueprint for how we might treat one another as adults. He reminded us that every person has value, that feelings are worth acknowledging, and that kindness is not weakness—it’s strength under control.

Contrast that with the culture we often see today, where bullying has been repackaged as confidence and cruelty gets disguised as honesty. Whether it shows up in schools, online spaces, or even public leadership, the tone can feel more like a battleground than a community. But the truth is, tearing people down has never built anything lasting. The world doesn’t need more voices shouting over each other—it needs more people willing to listen, to care, and to choose empathy over ego. Imagine what would happen if we measured success not by how many people we outshine, but by how many we lift up.

Maybe the call is simpler than we think. Be a little more patient. Speak a little more gently. Choose to understand before reacting. Those aren’t outdated ideals—they’re desperately needed ones. The legacy of Fred Rogers isn’t just something to admire from a distance; it’s something to live out in small, daily decisions. Because in the end, the world changes not through louder arguments, but through quieter acts of love. ~OC

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A King, A Calling, and A Cross: What Black Panther Teaches Us About the Christian Life

Today’s a new day!

The movie Black Panther isn’t just a superhero story—it’s a powerful exploration of identity, responsibility, legacy, and redemption. Beneath the action and spectacle lies a message that echoes deeply with the Christian life: who we are, what we inherit, and how we choose to live in light of truth.

1. Identity: Knowing Who You Are

T’Challa doesn’t just become king—he must understand what it means to be king. 

Throughout the film, he wrestles with the legacy of his father and the expectations placed upon him. In a similar way, Christians are not just given a title—we are given a new identity in Christ.

Scripture reminds us that we are children of God, heirs to His promises. But like T’Challa, we often wrestle with that identity. Are we defined by our past, our culture, our failures—or by what God says about us?

The Christian life begins when we stop asking, “Who does the world say I am?” and start embracing, “Who does God say I am?”

2. Legacy: Breaking What Needs to Be Broken

One of the most striking themes in Black Panther is confronting the past. T’Challa discovers that not everything handed down to him is righteous or just. His father made decisions rooted in fear and secrecy, and those choices had consequences.

As believers, we also inherit things—family patterns, cultural influences, even spiritual habits. Not all of them align with God’s truth. Following Jesus sometimes means breaking cycles, stepping out of what’s familiar, and choosing obedience over tradition.

Faith isn’t about preserving everything from the past—it’s about redeeming what honors God and letting go of what doesn’t.

3. Compassion Over Isolation

Wakanda’s greatest strength was also its greatest flaw: isolation. They had the resources to help the world but chose to remain hidden. By the end of the film, T’Challa realizes that true leadership means reaching outward, not retreating inward.

This mirrors the call of the Gospel. Jesus didn’t come to build walls—He came to tear them down. The Christian life is not meant to be lived in isolation, hoarding blessings. We are called to go, to serve, to love, and to bring light into dark places.

Faith that stays hidden isn’t faith fully lived.

4. Redemption: Even Broken Stories Matter

Erik Killmonger is one of the most complex characters in the film. His pain is real, his anger is understandable, but his path leads to destruction. He represents what happens when wounds go unhealed and justice is pursued without mercy.

Christianity doesn’t ignore pain—it transforms it. The Gospel tells us that no story is too broken, no past too far gone. Where the world sees enemies, Jesus sees people worth saving.

T’Challa’s final moments with Killmonger reflect a glimpse of grace—a recognition of pain, even in opposition. As believers, we are called to see people not just for what they’ve done, but for what God can do in them.

5. The True King

At its core, Black Panther is about kingship—what it means to lead, to serve, and to sacrifice. T’Challa grows into a king who listens, who humbles himself, and who ultimately chooses what is right over what is easy.

But as Christians, we follow a greater King—Jesus Christ. Unlike earthly rulers, He didn’t take a throne by force; He carried a cross. He didn’t protect His kingdom through power, but through sacrifice and love.

And He calls us to live the same way.

Final Thoughts

Black Panther reminds us that strength isn’t just about power—it’s about character. It’s about choosing truth over tradition, compassion over comfort, and purpose over pride.

The Christian life is a journey of becoming who God created us to be, confronting what needs to change, and stepping boldly into a calling bigger than ourselves.

Like T’Challa, we are given a kingdom to influence—not with vibranium, but with faith, hope, and love.

And the question remains:

Will we hide what God has given us…
or will we use it to change the world? ~OC

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Letter IV: To Those Who Feel Forgotten

Dear America, 

I write to those who feel unseen—those who believe their voices no longer matter, their struggles no longer register, and their hopes have been quietly set aside.

You are not alone in that feeling.

Across this nation, there are countless individuals who sense that the systems meant to serve them have instead overlooked them. 

Economic pressures mount, communities change, and the future feels uncertain. In such moments, frustration can easily turn into resentment, and resentment into division.

But let it be said clearly: your worth is not determined by your circumstances, nor is your voice diminished by your hardship.

The challenge before us is not to compete in suffering, but to recognize it in one another. Only then can we begin to build a society where no one feels abandoned and everyone has a stake in the future.

With steadfast hope,

A Servant of the Dream Yet to Be Fully Realized ~OC

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Through Every Season

Today’s a new day! 

A true life of service isn’t measured in titles, applause, or the weight of history books—it’s revealed in quiet consistency, in promises kept when no one would blame you for stepping back.

At the state funeral of President Jimmy Carter, his grandson Jason Carter said something simple yet profound: he was the same person no matter who he was with or where he was. Not a version of himself—just himself. Always.

And if you’re looking for proof of that kind of integrity, you don’t have to search long.

In the autumn of 2019, at 95 years old, President Carter fell at his home in Plains, Georgia. He split his forehead, required 14 stitches, and woke the next morning with a blackened eye and a bandage across his brow. For most, that would be reason enough to rest, recover, and cancel whatever came next. 

But Jimmy Carter had made a promise.

So he boarded a plane and flew to Nashville, Tennessee.

That evening, standing before volunteers at the historic Ryman Auditorium, his face bruised and stitched, he didn’t speak about pain or sacrifice. He simply said, “I had a No. 1 priority, and that was to come to Nashville and build houses.”

And the next morning, he did exactly that.

No special treatment. No spotlight. Just jeans, a blue volunteer T-shirt, and a drill in his hand—working shoulder to shoulder with others through Habitat for Humanity to build porches for families who needed homes.

What makes this story even more powerful is that it wasn’t extraordinary for him.

It was normal.

This was the 36th consecutive year he had shown up.

It all began back in 1984, just a few years after leaving the White House. Walking past a build site in New York City, he noticed something most people would overlook—there weren’t enough hands. So he joined in. No announcement. No ceremony. He slept on a church bunk bed while others expected him to make a brief appearance and leave.

Instead, he picked up a hammer and stayed.

He once said, “It’s OK if they want to take my picture holding a hammer, but as long as I’m holding a hammer, it’s going to be hitting a nail.”

And that’s exactly how he lived.

Over the next three and a half decades, President Carter helped build and repair more than 4,300 homes alongside over 100,000 volunteers across 14 countries. He never asked for a different shirt. Never separated himself from the work. Never became a symbol instead of a servant.

He simply showed up.

Again and again.

There’s something deeply challenging about a life like that. Because it strips away excuses. It redefines what greatness looks like. It reminds us that legacy isn’t built in moments of comfort, but in moments of commitment.

A true life of service doesn’t demand recognition—it demands faithfulness.

Not once.
Not occasionally.
But consistently.

Through pain. Through age. Through every season.

And maybe that’s the real takeaway: the world doesn’t just need more leaders—it needs more servants. People who don’t just talk about making a difference, but quietly, faithfully, relentlessly go to work.

Because in the end, the most powerful testimony isn’t what we say.

It’s what we do—day after day, promise after promise, nail after nail. ~OC

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Idolatry Is Killing the Church: Putting Jesus Above Politics

There is a quiet crisis unfolding within the Church today—one that is not always visible from the outside, yet deeply felt in the spirit. It is not persecution from the world, nor a lack of resources, nor even declining attendance. It is something far more dangerous: idolatry.

Idolatry is not just the worship of carved images or ancient gods. It is anything that takes the rightful place of Jesus in our hearts. And today, one of the most subtle and pervasive forms of idolatry in the Church is the elevation of politics above Christ.

When political identity becomes more important than spiritual identity, something has gone terribly wrong. When believers are more passionate about defending a party than proclaiming the Gospel, we have misplaced our allegiance. When unity in Christ is sacrificed for political agreement, we are no longer building the Kingdom—we are dividing it.

Jesus never called us to be ambassadors of political systems. He called us to be ambassadors of His Kingdom.

In John 18:36, Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world.” Yet many in the Church today live as though it is. We cling to earthly power, believing it will accomplish what only the Holy Spirit can do. We justify attitudes, words, and actions that contradict the very teachings of Christ, all in the name of protecting a political cause.

This is not righteousness. This is idolatry.

The early Church changed the world not through political dominance, but through radical love, humility, and unwavering devotion to Jesus. They didn’t have influence in government—but they had the power of the Gospel. They didn’t seek control—they sought surrender.

Somewhere along the way, we traded the cross for a platform, the Gospel for a talking point, and the mission of Christ for the mission of man.

The result? A watching world that no longer sees Jesus clearly through His Church.

If we are honest, many people outside the Church associate Christianity more with political arguments than with the love of Christ. That should grieve us. Because Jesus said the world would know us by our love—not our affiliations, not our opinions, not our ability to win debates.

The solution is not to abandon civic responsibility or ignore the issues of our day. Christians can and should engage in society. But our engagement must flow from our identity in Christ—not replace it.

We must return to our first love.

Jesus must be above every ideology, every platform, every candidate, and every cause. Our hope is not in governments, but in God. Our mission is not to win elections, but to win hearts. Our calling is not to mirror the world, but to reflect Christ.

It starts with humility. Repenting where we have allowed politics to shape our faith instead of allowing our faith to shape how we engage the world.

It continues with realignment. Re-centering our lives on the teachings of Jesus—His compassion, His truth, His grace, His holiness.

And it is sustained by surrender. Daily choosing to lay down every idol, visible or hidden, and declaring with our lives: Jesus is Lord.

The Church does not need more political power. It needs more spiritual authority. It needs believers who are so rooted in Christ that nothing else can take His place.

Idolatry is killing the Church—but it doesn’t have to.

If we lift Jesus back to where He belongs—above all things—we may just see revival begin again. ~OC

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The Gospel According to Krispy Kreme

Today’s a new day! This morning I share about two amazing things. Krispy Kreme Doughnuts and the Gospel of Jesus Christ. One brings sweet and temporary comfort, while the other brings peace and eternal life. This is The Gospel According To Krispy Kreme. 

There’s something almost sacred about the glow of that “Hot Now” sign. If you’ve ever pulled into the parking lot at just the right moment, you know the feeling—anticipation, excitement, and the promise of something warm, fresh, and satisfying. It’s not just a donut; it’s an experience. And strangely enough, it can teach us something about the Gospel.

The Gospel—the good news of Jesus Christ—isn’t complicated, but we often make it that way. We pile on expectations, rules, and performance, forgetting the simplicity of grace. But step into a donut shop, and suddenly the message becomes clearer.

First, you don’t have to earn the donut. You don’t walk in and prove yourself worthy. You don’t show a list of accomplishments or try to impress the cashier. You simply receive. In the same way, the Gospel reminds us that salvation isn’t something we achieve—it’s something we accept. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God” (Ephesians 2:8).

Second, the donut is best when it’s fresh. There’s a noticeable difference between one that’s hot off the line and one that’s been sitting around. Spiritually, many of us try to live off yesterday’s encounter with God. We rely on old prayers, past experiences, and distant memories of His presence. But God invites us into something fresh every day. His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23), and His presence is available right now—not just in the past.

Third, the glaze covers everything. That warm glaze doesn’t miss a spot—it flows over the entire donut, filling in cracks and imperfections. That’s a picture of God’s grace. When Jesus covers us, He doesn’t do it halfway. He doesn’t leave parts of us exposed or unredeemed. His love and forgiveness are complete. Where sin abounds, grace abounds even more (Romans 5:20).

But here’s where the analogy challenges us: donuts aren’t meant to just be admired—they’re meant to be shared. Nobody buys a dozen and hides them forever (at least, not for long). The joy increases when others are invited in. The Gospel is the same way. It’s not something we hoard; it’s something we live out and give away. Love, kindness, forgiveness—these are meant to overflow into the lives of others.

Finally, there’s the invitation. That glowing sign doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t say, “Hot Now—for the deserving only.” It’s open to anyone who walks through the door. That’s the heart of God. Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). No prerequisites. No perfect record required. Just come.

So maybe next time you see that “Hot Now” sign, let it remind you of something deeper. The Gospel is warm, inviting, and freely given. It meets us where we are, covers us in grace, and calls us into something fresh and life-giving.

The question is simple: will you receive it—and will you share it? ~OC

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