Happy Father’s Day!

Happy Father’s Day! I want to take a moment to recognize you.

Thank you to all the men who have stepped up and embraced the responsibility of being a father. In a world that often celebrates self-interest and personal comfort, you have chosen sacrifice, commitment, and love. You have chosen to put the needs of others before your own, and that deserves to be honored.

Thank you for the early mornings, the late nights, the hard work, the prayers, the guidance, and the countless unseen sacrifices that come with raising children. Thank you for being present when it would have been easier to walk away. Thank you for choosing faithfulness when the road became difficult.

I also want to offer a special thank you to the men who are raising children who do not share their DNA. Biology may make someone a father, but love, commitment, and sacrifice make someone a dad. There are countless men who have opened their hearts and homes to children who needed someone to believe in them, protect them, encourage them, and love them. Your impact reaches far beyond what you may ever fully realize.

Throughout Scripture, we see examples of men who stepped up when God called them. Men like Joseph, who faithfully raised Jesus even though he was not his biological son, remind us that fatherhood is about far more than genetics. It is about obedience, character, and love.

Our world desperately needs godly fathers and father figures. We need men who are willing to lead with humility, love with compassion, stand for truth, and point the next generation toward Jesus. We need men who understand that true strength is not found in power or position, but in serving others.

To every father, stepfather, adoptive father, grandfather, foster father, mentor, coach, teacher, and father figure who has invested in the lives of children and young people: thank you. You are making a difference, even on the days when it may not feel like it.

Your words matter. Your example matters. Your prayers matter. Your presence matters.

Today, we celebrate you and thank God for you.

May the Lord continue to strengthen you, encourage you, and bless you as you fulfill the incredible calling He has placed on your life. May you continue to be a bright light in a world that often feels dark, showing the love of Christ through your actions, your character, and your faith.

Happy Father’s Day to all the men who have stepped up, stood firm, and loved well.

Thank you for making a difference. I pray you each have a wonderful Father’s Day. ~OC

Either Way I Win

In 2019, after almost eighteen years of major health battles and being told on multiple occasions that I only had hours left to live, I experienced a beautiful miracle from God.

At that point in 2019, doctors believed I only had weeks remaining. The situation looked impossible. The circumstances seemed hopeless. Yet Jesus stepped into the middle of the story and reminded me that He always has the final say.

It was a true miracle.

Since that miracle, however, my journey has not been without additional challenges. I have endured multiple serious battles with COVID and also suffered a stroke. Today, my health journey has entered its twenty-fourth year.

Over those years, countless people have prayed for my complete healing. I am deeply grateful for every prayer, every encouraging message, every act of kindness, and every person who has stood beside me during difficult seasons. Those prayers have meant more than I could ever adequately express.

But as I have prayed about my health and spent time talking with Jesus, I have found myself reflecting on this journey from a different perspective.

I think about the many patients I have met over the years.

I think about the hospital rooms.

I think about the waiting rooms.

I think about the difficult conversations.

I think about the opportunities God has given me to pray with people, encourage people, and remind people that they are not alone.

Some Christians have viewed my health journey as something negative. They have looked at the diagnoses, the treatments, the setbacks, and the ongoing battles and wondered why God has not completely removed them.

But I have never viewed my journey that way.

I have always seen it as an opportunity.

An opportunity to share the love of Jesus.

An opportunity to share the hope of Jesus.

An opportunity to remind hurting people that God is still faithful even when life is difficult.

As I think about this, I am reminded of others whom God has used powerfully despite significant challenges.

I think about the Apostle Paul, who prayed for the “removal of his thorn in the flesh”, yet God told him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” Paul went on to impact the world with the Gospel despite his ongoing struggles. 

I think about Joni Eareckson Tada, whose life and testimony have inspired millions around the world.

I think about Nick Vujicic, who was born without arms and legs yet continues to share the Gospel with millions across the globe.

I think about Billy Graham, who faithfully preached Christ throughout seasons of physical weakness and aging.

I think about Eric LeGrand, whose courage and faith have encouraged countless people through adversity.

None of these individuals allowed their struggles to define them. Instead, they allowed God to use them right where they were. 

Their stories remind us that God’s power is not limited by our circumstances.

Throughout my own health journey, God has repeatedly shown me that my willingness to continue sharing the love and hope of Jesus during difficult seasons has encouraged others who are walking through storms of their own.

Sometimes we assume that our greatest ministry will happen after God removes our struggle.

But what if God wants to use us in the middle of the struggle?

What if the very battle we are asking Him to remove is the place where He is doing some of His greatest work?

What if our pain becomes a platform for His glory?

What if our scars become evidence of His faithfulness?

I still believe Jesus heals.

I still believe miracles happen.

After all, I am living proof that they do.

And maybe Jesus will choose to perform another miracle in my life on this side of Heaven.

Maybe He will completely restore every area of my health.

I certainly welcome the prayers everyone continues to pray for my healing.

But perhaps God is using this season exactly as it is.

Perhaps there are people I can reach because of this journey that I could never reach otherwise.

Perhaps there are conversations that happen because of these challenges that would never happen without them.

Perhaps Jesus has me planted exactly where He wants me.

So if God leads you, please continue praying for my healing.

But also pray that Jesus continues to use me.

Pray that I remain faithful.

Pray that I continue to encourage others.

Pray that I continue sharing His love and hope wherever He opens a door.

Because whether I receive another miracle here on earth or whether God continues to use me in the middle of this battle, my victory is already secure in Christ.

If He heals me completely here on earth, I win.

If He uses my story to bring hope to others, I win.

If He uses my struggles to point people toward Jesus, I win.

And one day, whether through healing here or perfect healing in Heaven, I will stand in the presence of my Savior completely restored.

Either way, I win.

“For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21)

And that is a victory no illness can ever take away. ~OC

A Prayer For The Cancer Support Group

Dear Heavenly Father,

Today I lift up every member of the Cancer Support Group into Your loving hands. Lord Jesus, surround each person with Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding. Strengthen them for every challenge they face, renew their hearts and minds, and grant wisdom to them, their families, and their medical teams.

I pray for Your healing touch to rest upon each life. Bring comfort where there is fear, hope where there is discouragement, and courage for each new day. Remind them that they are never alone, for You walk beside them through every appointment, treatment, and trial.

Help them continue to lean into Your promises, trusting that You are faithful, good, and present in every season. May they find rest in Your presence, strength in Your Word, and confidence in Your unfailing love.

In the mighty and healing name of Jesus, I pray. Amen. ~OC

Wake Up, Christian: Why I Write About Tough Topics

One of the questions I get asked quite often is this:

“Why do you write about such tough topics?”

Sometimes the question is phrased a little differently:

“Why don’t you just stick to the nice,

encouraging, less controversial subjects?”

My answer is usually very simple:

Because that is what God has placed on my heart at that moment.

I don’t sit down and ask myself, “How can I make people uncomfortable today?” I sit down and ask, “Lord, what do You want me to say?”

Sometimes He leads me to write about hope, healing, miracles, and encouragement. Other times He leads me to write about difficult issues that many people would rather avoid.

The truth is, I believe too many Christians have become comfortable.

Far too many believers want to walk through life with blinders on, roast marshmallows, eat s’mores, and pretend everything in the world is just fine.

But it isn’t.

Look around.

People are hurting.

Families are broken.

Addictions are destroying lives.

Human trafficking continues to victimize millions.

Abuse is often ignored.

Depression and anxiety are everywhere.

Suicide rates remain alarming.

Loneliness is growing.

The world is facing some very real and very difficult challenges.

As followers of Christ, we cannot afford to pretend these issues don’t exist.

Jesus never ignored pain.

Jesus never looked away from suffering.

Jesus never avoided difficult conversations.

He stepped directly into the brokenness of humanity and brought truth, hope, healing, and redemption.

As Christians, we are called to be a bright light in a dark world. Sometimes that means encouraging people. Sometimes it means comforting people. Sometimes it means speaking difficult truths and confronting evil when we see it.

The world doesn’t need a thirty-minute sitcom version of Christianity.

The world doesn’t need believers who pretend life is perfect.

The world doesn’t need another polished sermon that makes us feel good on Sunday but leaves us spiritually empty by Monday morning.

What the world desperately needs is genuine Christianity.

People want authenticity.

They want to see believers who are honest about their struggles.

They want to see Christians who admit they don’t have it all together.

They want to see followers of Jesus who are willing to show their scars, their failures, their lessons learned, and how God carried them through.

They want to see faith that is real.

The Gospel was never meant to simply make us comfortable.

It was meant to transform us.

Growth rarely happens when we stay comfortable.

Growth happens when God challenges us.

Growth happens when we wrestle with hard truths.

Growth happens when the Holy Spirit convicts our hearts and calls us to something greater.

That is why I will continue sharing messages that challenge people.

Not because I enjoy controversy.

Not because I think I have all the answers.

But because I believe God often uses uncomfortable moments to produce spiritual growth.

If a message makes us stop and think, examine our hearts, or see the world through God’s eyes, then perhaps that discomfort is exactly what we need.

Now, don’t worry—I won’t write only about difficult subjects.

I’ll still sprinkle in plenty of encouraging posts about faith, hope, healing, miracles, worship, and God’s goodness.

After all, encouragement is important too.

But I will not shy away from the hard conversations when God places them on my heart.

The Church doesn’t need less truth.

The Church doesn’t need less courage.

The Church doesn’t need less conviction.

The Church needs believers who are awake, engaged, and willing to shine the light of Christ wherever darkness exists.

So my encouragement today is simple:

Wake up.

Look around.

Pray.

Pay attention.

Love people.

Speak truth.

Show grace.

Confront evil.

Offer hope.

And above all else, point people to Jesus.

Because this world doesn’t need comfortable Christianity.

It needs Christians who are willing to follow Jesus wherever He leads—even when the conversation gets difficult. ~OC

Two Questions Every Christian Should Ask Themselves

Today’s a new day! 

There are two questions that have been on my heart recently, and honestly, they are questions I need to ask myself as much as anyone else.

Question #1: When someone looks at your life, would they want to be like you?

Not because we’re perfect.

Not because we have all the answers.

Not because we’ve never failed.

But when people see our lives, do they see something different? Do they see the peace of Christ in the middle of chaos? Do they see grace when others are harsh? Do they see hope when circumstances seem hopeless? Do they see a faith that remains steady when life gets difficult?

The Apostle Paul boldly wrote, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1).

That is a challenging statement. Could we honestly say the same?

When people watch how we treat our spouses, our children, our neighbors, the cashier at the grocery store, or even those who disagree with us, are they seeing Jesus reflected in us?

The truth is that our lives may be the only Bible some people ever encounter. Every conversation, every action, every response to adversity is an opportunity to point people toward Christ—or away from Him.

None of us get it right all the time. I certainly don’t. But our goal should be to live in such a way that others are drawn not to us, but to the Savior living within us.

Question #2: Do you have a passion to praise and serve Jesus?

Christianity was never meant to be a once-a-week activity.

It was never meant to be a religious checkbox.

It was never meant to be a routine without relationship.

Jesus gave everything for us. He carried our sins to the Cross, conquered death through His resurrection, and offers us eternal life. How can we not respond with passionate praise and wholehearted service?

Praise isn’t just singing songs on Sunday morning. Praise is thanking God when life is good. Praise is trusting Him when life is hard. Praise is lifting His name when the diagnosis comes, when the bills pile up, when the storm refuses to leave.

Service isn’t just what happens inside church walls. Service happens when we encourage someone who is hurting. It happens when we pray for others. It happens when we meet needs, show compassion, and become the hands and feet of Jesus in a broken world.

The question isn’t whether we attend church.

The question is whether our hearts burn with a love for Jesus.

Do we wake up looking for opportunities to honor Him?

Do we seek ways to serve others in His name?

Do we long to know Him more deeply today than we did yesterday?

A Personal Reflection:

As I ask these questions of my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, I must also ask them of myself.

When people look at my life, do they see Jesus?

Am I living in a way that inspires others to draw closer to Him?

Do I still have a passion to praise Him through every season?

Do I still have a desire to serve Him with whatever time, talents, and opportunities He has given me?

These aren’t questions meant to bring condemnation. They are questions meant to bring reflection and renewal.

Perhaps today is a good day for all of us to pause and ask God to search our hearts.

May our lives be a testimony of His goodness.

May our words point people toward His truth.

May our actions reflect His love.

And may we never lose our passion to praise and serve the One who gave everything for us.

Lord, let my life be a reflection of You. Help me live in such a way that others see Jesus in me. Rekindle my passion to praise You, serve You, and follow You faithfully every day. Amen. ~OC

Hope Isles: A New Beginning Chapter Five: The Hidden Box

Hope Isles: A New Beginning

Chapter 5 – The Hidden Box

James turned the old brass key over in his hand as he rode home from the harbor.

The metal was worn smooth from years of use.

Or perhaps years of waiting.

Either way, it was clear the key had a story.

The question was whether anyone still knew it.

When James arrived at the Wilson house, Sarah was sitting on the porch reading.

She looked up as he parked his bicycle.

“Good day?”

“Interesting day.”

Sarah laughed.

“That’s usually how trouble starts.”

James held up the key.

“I hope not.”

She examined it.

“What’s that?”

“A mystery.”

“Now you’ve got my attention.”

James sat beside her and explained his conversation with David.

By the time he finished, Sarah was leaning forward.

“You’re telling me there might be hidden treasure on this property?”

“I never said treasure.”

“But there could be.”

“There could also be old gardening tools.”

Sarah frowned.

“You’re no fun at all.”

James laughed.

An hour later they stood in the attic.

Dust floated through shafts of sunlight.

The old house groaned occasionally as if remembering its age.

Sarah sneezed.

“I think this attic is older than the town.”

James brushed dust from an old trunk.

“It might be.”

The key fit none of the locks they found upstairs.

Nor did it fit the old cabinets downstairs.

After nearly an hour of searching, Sarah sat on an overturned crate.

“I officially give up.”

James wasn’t ready to quit.

Something about David’s words stayed with him.

My father hid something on that property.

Not in the house.

On the property.

That changed things.

Later that evening, James walked the grounds.

The property stretched farther than most people realized.

There was an old barn behind the house.

A small shed near the tree line.

Several large oak trees.

And one ancient stone well that had long since been sealed.

As the sun dipped lower, James noticed something unusual.

Near the barn door was a small carving.

A symbol scratched into the wood.

At first glance it appeared to be nothing.

Then he recognized it.

A cross

Beside it were the initials:

J.D.

James remembered David mentioning his father.

Jonathan Davis.

J.D.

His pulse quickened slightly.

The next morning, word somehow spread that James was searching for a hidden secret.

Nobody knew exactly how.

But by breakfast, half of Hope Isles seemed aware of it.

At the Sit Awhile Diner, June shook her head.

“This town couldn’t keep a surprise secret if its life depended on it.”

Joe laughed.

“What’s the latest version?”

June rolled her eyes.

“According to one customer, James found pirate gold.”

“What about the other version?”

“Buried diamonds.”

Joe nodded thoughtfully.

“I kind of like that one.”

The diner door opened.

James entered.

June pointed at him.

“There he is.”

“What did I do now?”

Joe grinned.

“Found pirate treasure.”

James blinked.

“I did?”

“Apparently.”

June set a coffee mug in front of him.

“Congratulations.”

“I haven’t even found breakfast yet.”

Across town, Pastor Timothy was trimming bushes outside the church when David approached.

The pastor smiled.

“David.”

“It’s been a long time.”

“Too long.”

David nodded.

For years he had avoided Hope Isles.

Avoided church.

Avoided nearly everyone.

Yet here he was.

Back where it all began.

Pastor Timothy studied him carefully.

“You look different.”

David chuckled:

“Older?”

“Besides that.”

The older man stared toward the church steeple.

“I’ve spent a lot of years running.”

“And now?”

“I’m tired.”

The pastor nodded.

He understood.

Some journeys took people far away before bringing them home.

That afternoon, James returned to the barn.

This time Sarah joined him.

Together they examined the structure more carefully.

The barn was weathered but sturdy.

Near the back wall, James noticed another carving.

The same cross.

The same initials.

J.D.

Directly beneath it sat an old wooden workbench.

James crouched down.

Something seemed odd.

One of the floorboards beneath the bench looked newer than the others.

“Sarah.”

“What?”

“Come look at this.”

She knelt beside him.

“You think that’s it?”

“Maybe.”

Together they moved the heavy workbench.

Years of dust scattered across the floor.

James carefully pried up the loose board.

Both leaned forward.

Below it was a small compartment.

And inside…

A metal box.

Neither spoke

For a moment they simply stared.

The box was old.

Rust-covered.

And locked

Sarah’s eyes widened.

“Tell me the key fits.” 

James smiled.

“There is only one way to find out.”

With trembling hands, he inserted the brass key.

The lock resisted.

Then suddenly—

Click.

The box opened

Inside were several yellowed envelopes.

A leather-bound journal.

And a folded piece of paper resting on top.

James carefully unfolded it.

The handwriting was faded but readable.

He began reading aloud.

“To whoever finds this…”

Sarah leaned closer.

“If you are reading these words, then God has brought you here for a reason.”

James exchanged a glance with Sarah.

The note continued.

“This house was always meant to be more than a house. It was meant to be a refuge. A place where broken hearts could find hope and where weary travelers could find rest.”

Sarah’s eyes filled with tears.

James continued reading.

“If the Lord has placed that same vision in your heart, then continue what we started.”

For a long moment, neither spoke.

The barn seemed completely silent.

Finally Sarah whispered,

“James…”

He looked up.

“What?”

She smiled through tears.

“I don’t think you bought this house by accident.”

James looked down at the letter.

At the journal.

At the words written decades before he had ever arrived in Hope Isles.

Then he quietly replied,

“No.”

Outside, the afternoon breeze rustled through the trees.

And for the first time, James began to realize that the vision God had placed in his heart might have started long before he ever came to Hope Isles.

To Be Continued…

SURRENDER

Here is a acronym I created for the word S.U.R.R.E.N.D.E.R.

S – Seek God first in all things
U – Understand that His ways are higher than ours
R – Rest in His promises during every season
R – Rely on His strength instead of your own
E – Embrace His grace and mercy each day
N – Nurture your faith through prayer and Scripture
D – Deny yourself and take up your cross daily
E – Encourage others with the love of Christ
R – Remain faithful until the end

Faith Journey Reflection:

SURRENDER is not giving up—it is giving everything over to God. It is seeking Him, trusting Him, relying on His strength, and remaining faithful as He leads us step by step on our journey of faith.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” ~ Proverbs 3:5-6 

Hope Isles: A New Beginning Chapter Three

The evening air was cool as James sat on the curb across from the old Wilson house.

The young woman clutched the handle of her suitcase.

Neither spoke for several moments.

Finally, James broke the silence.

“My name is James.”

A faint smile crossed her face.

“I know.”

“Then I suppose it’s only fair that I learn your name.”

She looked down at the ground.

“Sarah.”

“It’s nice to meet you, Sarah.”

She nodded.

“You too.”

James could see exhaustion in her eyes.

Not the kind that came from a long day.

The kind that came from carrying heavy burdens for a long time.

“You said Pastor Timothy sent you?”

“Yes.”

“He knows your situation?”

Sarah swallowed hard.

“Some of it.”

James nodded gently.

“You don’t have to tell me anything tonight.”

The tension in her shoulders eased.

For the first time since he’d arrived, she looked slightly relieved.

A few minutes later, James opened the front door.

The old house creaked as they stepped inside.

Sarah stopped in the foyer.

Her eyes widened.

“It’s beautiful.”

“It needs work.”

“It still feels like home.”

The words lingered in the air.

James smiled.

“I hope so.”

He carried her suitcase upstairs.

Stopping at one of the freshly cleaned bedrooms, he opened the door.

A simple bed.

A dresser.

A lamp.

A small Bible on the nightstand.

Nothing fancy.

But it was clean and comfortable.

Sarah stepped into the room slowly.

Almost as if she couldn’t believe it was real.

“You can stay here as long as you need.”

Her eyes immediately filled with tears.

“I don’t know how to thank you.”

“You don’t have to.”

“But you don’t even know me.”

James leaned against the doorway.

“Everybody needs someone to believe in them before they’ve earned it.”

Sarah wiped her eyes.

“Not many people think that way.”

“Someone once did it for me.”

She looked at him curiously.

But James didn’t elaborate.

Not yet.

The next morning, news traveled through Hope Isles at its usual speed.

Which was to say…

Very fast.

By breakfast, half the town knew someone had moved into the Wilson house.

By lunch, everyone knew.

At the Sit Awhile Diner, June was pouring coffee when Joe arrived.

“You heard?” he asked.

June laughed.

“I’ve heard six versions already.”

Joe slid into a booth.

“They say James has a woman living at the house.”

June raised an eyebrow.

“They also said last month that Mayor Jenkins was secretly buying a circus.”

Joe nodded.

“Fair point.”

At that moment, Pastor Timothy entered.

June pointed a coffee pot at him.

“Well?”

“Well what?”

“Settle the rumors.”

Pastor Timothy smiled knowingly.

“Sarah needed help.”

Joe nodded slowly.

“And James helped.”

“Yes.”

June folded her arms.

“That’s all?”

“That’s all.”

The pastor took a sip of coffee.

Then added,

“Sometimes the truth is much less interesting than the gossip.”

Meanwhile, Sarah sat on the Wilson house porch.

For the first time in months, she felt safe.

James was in the front yard planting flowers.

She watched him work.

Eventually she spoke.

“You don’t ask many questions.”

James looked up.

“I ask when people are ready to answer.”

Sarah was quiet.

Then she said,

“I left home.”

James nodded.

“I figured.”

“My dad and I haven’t spoken in almost a year.”

James listened.

“He wanted me to become someone I’m not.”

Sarah stared at the porch railing.

“When I finally left, I thought I’d be okay.”

“What happened?”

“I ran out of money.”

The words came out barely above a whisper.

“And then?”

“I got scared.”

James sat down on the porch steps.

“Thank you for telling me.”

She looked surprised.

“That’s all you’re going to say?”

“For now.”

Sarah laughed softly.

“Most people would’ve given advice by now.”

“I’ve learned advice works better after listening.”

Later that afternoon, James rode his bicycle into town.

As he passed the harbor, he noticed an elderly 

man struggling to carry fishing supplies from his truck.

Without hesitation, James stopped.

“Need a hand?”

The old fisherman grinned.

“Depends.”

“On what?”

“Whether you’re strong enough.”

James laughed.

“Only one way to find out.”

Together they carried the supplies.

When they finished, the fisherman stuck out his hand.

“The name’s Walter.”

James shook it.

“Nice to meet you.”

Walter studied him for a moment.

“So you’re the young fellow everybody keeps talking about.”

“I was hoping that would stop.”

Walter chuckled.

“In Hope Isles?”

“Good point.”

The old fisherman pointed toward town.

“People aren’t talking because you’re new.”

“They’re not?”

“No.”

“Then why?”

Walter smiled.

“Because kindness stands out these days.”

That evening, as the sun sank below the horizon, James sat alone on the porch.

The house behind him felt different now.

Less empty.

More alive.

One room was occupied.

One life was beginning to heal.

As he watched the last rays of sunlight disappear, he heard a voice behind him.

“James?”

It was Sarah.

“Yes?”

She stepped onto the porch.

“I haven’t prayed in a long time.”

James nodded.

“Okay.”

She hesitated.

Then quietly asked,

“Would you pray with me?”

A smile spread across his face.

“Absolutely.”

As the stars began appearing over Hope Isles, the two bowed their heads together on the porch of the old Wilson house.

Neither of them noticed the figure standing across the street, watching from the shadows.

A man.

Older.

Unfamiliar.

And judging by the expression on his face…

He wasn’t there by accident.

To Be Continued…

When The White House Chooses The Main Event

On Sunday night, the White House lawn will host a UFC event as part of America’s 250th Birthday Celebration. 

For some, it will be entertainment.

For others, it will be a symbol of strength, toughness, and American culture.

For me, it represents something entirely different.

The White House has long been called “The People’s House.” Throughout American history, its grounds have hosted events that brought families together, celebrated achievement, honored service, and showcased the best of our nation.

The annual Easter Egg Roll has welcomed children and families to the South Lawn since  1878 under President Rutherford B. Hayes.

Presidents have hosted Independence Day celebrations filled with music, fireworks, and community.

President Lyndon Johnson transformed the lawn into an outdoor arts venue during the Festival of the Arts.

President Gerald Ford hosted Queen Elizabeth  for an elegant state dinner beneath a tent on the South Lawn.

The grounds have welcomed world leaders, served as the landing place for Marine One, and stood as a symbol of American leadership.

President Jimmy Carter even installed a temporary ice rink so Olympic champion Peggy Fleming could perform for guests.

President George W. Bush hosted T-ball games featuring children of active-duty military personnel.

Families.

Children.

Artists.

Athletes.

Public servants.

Moments that reflected dignity and community.

Now, the White House lawn welcomes the UFC.

That reality should cause us to ask an important question:

What are we choosing to celebrate?

The UFC has certainly become a massive business success. Millions watch its events. Millions more wager on the outcomes. The organization has produced many talented athletes who have worked hard to reach the highest levels of their sport.

But the UFC has also been surrounded by years of controversy involving domestic violence allegations, arrests, abuse accusations, and troubling behavior from some of its biggest stars.

The organization’s founder and CEO was caught on video striking his wife. Public outrage followed. Yet many quickly moved on.

Several fighters over the years have faced allegations or arrests involving domestic violence and abuse.

Yet tonight, this organization is being elevated to center stage on one of the most recognizable pieces of property in America.

As Christians, we should not merely ask whether something is popular.

We should ask whether it is worthy of celebration.

Popularity and righteousness are not the same thing.

The crowds that shouted “Hosanna” on Sunday shouted “Crucify Him” on Friday.

The Bible repeatedly reminds us that the values of God’s Kingdom often stand in direct opposition to the values of the world.

Jesus taught us to honor the peacemakers.

Jesus taught us to protect the vulnerable.

Jesus taught us that true greatness is found in humility and service.

Jesus never taught us to idolize aggression, celebrity, power, or wealth.

I already know many people will disagree with me.

Many will watch.

Many will cheer.

Many will place bets.

Many will celebrate the spectacle.

That is their choice.

But as for me, I cannot help but feel sadness that a place which has hosted children hunting Easter eggs, military families playing T-ball, artists sharing their gifts, and leaders gathering in diplomacy is now being used to showcase an organization whose history includes so many troubling examples of violence beyond the octagon.

Perhaps that says something about where our culture is today.

Perhaps it says something about what we reward.

Perhaps it says something about what we have become willing to overlook.

As Christians, our calling is not to blindly follow the crowd or celebrate whatever is trending.

Our calling is to seek God’s Kingdom first.

To honor what is good.

To defend what is right.

To stand for truth even when it is unpopular.

America’s 250th birthday should be an 

opportunity to celebrate the highest ideals of our nation: faith, family, service, sacrifice, character, and human dignity.

Instead, Sunday’s main event leaves me asking whether we have confused entertainment with virtue.

And that is a fight I have no interest in watching. ~OC

When We Care More About Position Than Protection

Today’s a new day!

I know many people may disagree with what I am about to say, and that’s okay. Healthy disagreement is part of life and part of the Church. But I stand firmly by these words.

I care far more about the victims of abuse in our churches than I do about whether a woman teaches a Bible study, preaches a sermon, or stands behind a pulpit in a Southern Baptist Church—or any other church.

For years, countless hours, meetings, conferences, articles, and social media debates have focused on the role of women in ministry. Entire denominations have wrestled with the question. Churches have split over it. Christians have passionately argued both sides.

Yet while some believers are consumed with debates about who is allowed to speak from the platform, children, teenagers, and vulnerable adults have suffered abuse in churches that were supposed to be safe places.

That should break our hearts.

When Jesus walked this earth, He consistently placed people above power, compassion above control, and protection of the vulnerable above religious posturing. He reserved some of His strongest words for religious leaders who burdened others while neglecting justice, mercy, and faithfulness.

I cannot help but wonder what Jesus thinks when churches spend more energy debating who can preach or teach than they spend ensuring children are protected.

I cannot help but wonder what He thinks when victims are ignored, silenced, questioned, or blamed while church leaders focus on preserving reputations and institutions.

The Church should be the safest place on earth for a child.

The safest place for a survivor.

The safest place for the wounded.

The safest place for those seeking healing.

And yet, too often, it has not been.

This is not a statement against theology. 

Theology matters. Scripture matters. Church governance matters. But if our theological discussions become more important than protecting people made in the image of God, something has gone terribly wrong.

If Christians are more concerned about a woman’s role in ministry than they are about children being abused, they have missed something essential in the teachings of Jesus.

If we can passionately argue about positions while remaining silent about victims, we need to examine our priorities.

If we are quicker to defend institutions than to defend the brokenhearted, we need to return to the heart of Christ.

Jesus welcomed children.

Jesus protected the vulnerable.

Jesus stood with the hurting.

Jesus confronted religious leaders who had lost sight of what mattered most.

The Church should do the same.

The world is watching how we respond. More importantly, survivors are watching.

They don’t need another debate.

They need safety.

They need accountability.

They need justice.

They need compassion.

They need to know that the Church values their well-being more than its reputation.

My prayer is that Christians of every denomination would become known not merely for what we believe, but for how fiercely we protect the vulnerable, how seriously we take abuse allegations, how compassionately we care for survivors, and how faithfully we reflect the heart of Jesus.

Because at the end of the day, protecting the vulnerable is not a political issue.

It is not a denominational issue.

It is not a conservative issue or a progressive issue.

It is a Jesus issue. ~OC

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