Let’s Build An Invite and Invest Society

I think we need a different kind of society.

Not a society built around exclusion, division, suspicion, and “us versus them.”

Not a society where we constantly ask who belongs, who doesn’t belong, who deserves help, or who is worthy of our attention.

I want to live in an Invite & Invest society.

A society where we look around and ask:

“Who can I invite in?”

And then:

“How can I invest in them?”

Because an invitation can change someone’s life.

Invite someone to your table.

Invite someone into your home.

Invite someone into the conversation.

Invite someone who feels forgotten.

Invite someone who doesn’t look like you.

Invite someone who doesn’t vote like you.

Invite someone who doesn’t worship like you.

Invite someone who comes from somewhere different.

Invite someone who simply needs a friend.

Sometimes the greatest gift we can give another person is the simple message:

“There is a place for you here.”

But don’t stop with the invitation.

Invest.

Invest your time.

Invest your attention.

Invest your encouragement.

Invest your experience.

Invest your resources.

Invest your relationships.

Invest your wisdom.

Invest your prayers.

Invest in someone’s dreams.

Invest in someone’s potential.

Invest in someone who needs a second chance.

Invest in someone who hasn’t yet discovered what they are capable of becoming.

Because people aren’t investments in the financial sense.

They are investments in the human sense.

And the return isn’t money.

The return is changed lives.

A young person who discovers their purpose.

A struggling neighbor who realizes they aren’t alone.

A discouraged friend who finds hope again.

A stranger who becomes a friend.

A broken person who begins to heal.

A community that becomes stronger because people decided to care about one another.

That’s what happens when we invest in people.

And here’s the beautiful thing:

You don’t have to be rich to invest in someone.

You can invest five minutes.

You can make a phone call.

You can send a text.

You can listen.

You can encourage.

You can teach.

You can introduce someone to an opportunity.

You can buy someone a meal.

You can give someone a ride.

You can mentor someone.

You can open a door.

You can simply show up.

Sometimes investing in people means saying:

“I believe in you.”

And sometimes it means saying:

“I’m not giving up on you.”

We live in a world that seems determined to put people into categories.

Left.

Right.

Rich.

Poor.

Christian.

Non-Christian.

Citizen.

Immigrant.

Insider.

Outsider.

Us.

Them.

But before we are any of those things, we are human beings.

And every human being has a story.

Every human being carries something we may know nothing about.

Every human being has value.

Every human being deserves dignity.

And every human being has the potential to make a difference.

So let’s stop asking:

“What can this person do for me?”

Let’s start asking:

“What can I pour into this person?”

Let’s stop asking:

“Do they deserve an invitation?”

Let’s start asking:

“How can I make them feel welcome?”

Let’s stop waiting for someone else to make a difference.

Let’s be the difference.

Invite the lonely.

Invest in the young.

Encourage the discouraged.

Welcome the stranger.

Mentor the searching.

Stand beside the hurting.

Celebrate someone else’s success.

Give someone a second chance.

Open a door for someone who has been standing outside.

And when you have the opportunity to lift someone up, do it.

Because someday, you may be the person who needs someone else to do the same for you.

Imagine neighborhoods where people actually know their neighbors.

Imagine churches where nobody walks through the doors feeling invisible.

Imagine schools where every child has at least one adult who believes in them.

Imagine workplaces where people are valued as human beings, not simply as employees.

Imagine communities where generosity is normal.

Imagine a country where we could disagree without dehumanizing one another.

Imagine what could happen if we became known not for the people we kept out…

but for the people we invited in and invested in.

That’s the society I want.

An Invite & Invest society.

Because we may never know what one invitation will lead to.

We may never know what one conversation will change.

We may never know what one act of kindness will mean to someone.

We may never know whose life will be different because we chose to believe in them.

But that’s okay.

We don’t have to know.

We just have to be willing to invest.

So today, look around.

Who needs an invitation?

Who needs encouragement?

Who needs someone to listen?

Who needs an opportunity?

Who needs a second chance?

Who needs someone to believe in them?

Go find them.

Invite them in.

Pull up another chair.

Make room at the table.

And then invest your time, your heart, your wisdom, your resources and your love.

Because I believe we can build something better.

Not by building higher walls…

but by building longer tables.

Not by asking who belongs…

but by making room.

Not by tearing people down…

but by investing in people and helping them rise.

Invite.
Invest.
Encourage.
Believe.
Love.

Let’s build an Invite & Invest society.

Because there is always room for one more at the table. ~OC

If Old Glory Could Speak On America’s 250th Birthday

Happy Fourth of July! Before we start with the food and fireworks, I wanted to share the following post with you. I hope you will take the time to read. ~OC

“I have flown over battlefields and schoolhouses, over farms and factories, over churches and courthouses. I have been raised in moments of victory and lowered in moments of grief. I have watched generations come and go. Today, America turns Two-Hundred and Fifty years old. If I could speak, this is what I would say…”

My Dear America,

For two hundred and fifty years, I have waved in the wind through seasons of triumph and seasons of heartbreak.

I have seen brave men and women give everything so others could live in freedom. I have watched families build lives from nothing. I have witnessed extraordinary courage during wars, disasters, and national tragedies. I have also watched division, hatred, selfishness, and pride threaten the very foundation upon which this nation was built.

Today, I want to speak—not as a politician, not as a party, not as an ideology—but as the flag that has stood above every American generation.

To Those Born in America

Never forget that freedom has always carried a cost.

The liberties you enjoy today were purchased by the sacrifice of countless men and women whose names history may never remember. Some never came home. Others came home carrying wounds that could not be seen.

Honor their sacrifice not merely with words, but by how you live.

Respect one another.

Serve your communities.

Defend truth.

Care for your neighbors.

Do not waste your freedom chasing things that will never satisfy your soul.

Remember that rights and responsibilities have always walked hand in hand.

A nation cannot remain free if its people refuse to live with character.

To Those Who Now Call America Home

Welcome.

Whether your journey here began with hope, hardship, sacrifice, or prayer, know that your story is now woven into America’s story.

Bring your talents.

Bring your dreams.

Bring your work ethic.

Bring your love for family.

Bring your gratitude.

Help strengthen this nation by embracing not only its opportunities but also its responsibilities.

Never stop appreciating the freedoms that millions around the world still long for.

America has always been at her best when people from many backgrounds chose to become one people committed to a shared future.

To Every Citizen

Please stop seeing each other as enemies.

You were never meant to fear one another simply because you vote differently.

You were never meant to despise someone because they grew up somewhere else.

You were never meant to define another human being by a political label before seeing them as a person.

I have covered the coffins of soldiers from every political belief.

Death never asked who they voted for.

Their sacrifice was for every American.

Perhaps that should remind you that your neighbor is not your enemy. 

Remember Who You Are

I am only cloth.

I have no power by myself.

I only represent the people who stand beneath me.

If honesty disappears…

If compassion disappears…

If courage disappears…

If integrity disappears…

Then I become nothing more than fabric blowing in the wind.

A nation’s greatness has never depended upon the beauty of its flag.

It has always depended upon the character of its people.

A Word About Humility

No nation is perfect.

America has accomplished remarkable things.

America has also made painful mistakes.

Maturity is found in celebrating what is good 

while having the courage to acknowledge what must improve.

Patriotism is not pretending perfection.

Patriotism is loving your country enough to help it become better.

To the Next Generation

Dream boldly.

Work diligently.

Serve faithfully.

Honor your parents.

Protect the vulnerable.

Respect those who came before you.

Build something that outlives you.

Leave America stronger than you found her.

One day, this nation will belong to your children.

Prepare it well.

One Final Thought

As I have flown over this nation for two-hundred and fifty years, I have learned something.

The strongest America has never been the loudest America.

The strongest America has always been the America that prayed together…

served together…

sacrificed together…

forgave together…

and believed that tomorrow could be better than yesterday.

May you never lose that hope.

May you never lose your courage.

May you never lose your gratitude.

And may you never forget that while I may symbolize your nation, it is you—your character, your compassion, your integrity, and your willingness to love your neighbor—who determine what I truly stand for.

Happy Two Hundred and Fiftieth Birthday, America.

May God bless you with wisdom.

May He guide your leaders.

May He protect your people.

And may liberty always be joined with justice, humility, and love.

Happy Birthday, America.

Signed, 

—Old Glory

Let Diversity Shine

Today’s a new day! We have to learn again how to disagree. Being wrong is sometimes better than being right. We have to stop pointing out the “bad” (or the things we disagree with) and find common ground.

We need to find solutions to problems rather than just pointing out the problems and then walking away. What has always made America great is our diversity and coming together in times of need. Look around, we are in desperate times. It’s time for everyone to be allowed a seat at the table and come together. The diversity of America is a gift, not a curse. So today, let’s reach out and let our diversity shine. ~OC

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